A busy day, again.

Not sure if it was relief that we have the house sorted but we both had a lovely undisturbed night and even Totty slept all through.

Jon left for work and I did some washing and hung it out and then took Totty for a walk, I love walking in the sunshine and it is so much warmer out of our house than in it.

I did another load of washing and then sorted out lots of books that we seem to have accumulated over the past year.

Heather left some books here and I was not sure if she wanted them kept or not so I phoned home to ask her but she was out and I spoke to Kirsty and we had a chat and she said she would text Heather to ask her. Kirsty told me she had seen the new house on my FB page and she said we are too old to have a house like that!!! Don't you just love them. Heather was quick to reply and tell me she does want the books. We are so lucky to be able to communicate so easily these days.

I left to meet Jon at the clinic and we drove up at the same time. We went in to see Michelle, the consultant oncologist, who is very pleased with the way surgery went and she says Jon's cancer was a T3+3 and responded very well to the radiation and chemo and after surgery it was downgraded to a T1+0 which she says is excellent. She talked us through the surgery and gave us a print out of it all very interesting.

We then started to talk about the chemo and he was given two options. The first is tablets like he had with his radiotherapy but a higher dose and would be three weeks on and one week off for a total of 18 weeks. The second option was the same drug as the tablets but with another mixed in. This would mean a stent being put into his chest under general anaesthetic. He would administer it at home over 48 hours but I can't remember for how long. The problem with this one is that there would be side effect which could be significant and long term. She talked about percentages of success etc and both her and Jon worked it out that the tablets would work just as well as the drip or there was only a 5% difference in outcome which apparently is not significant. I worked it out with my heart and just wanted the best and long term.

Well, after a long discussion it was decided on the tablets which Jon is to start on Saturday for three weeks. On the fourth week he will have a blood test and if his blood cells are OK he can start the next three weeks. We chatted to the nurse, too and both agreed that Jon is looking well.

We discussed if Jon could have a drink on these tablets and he told the doctor that so far he has not tried a drink and has not been this drink free since he was 15 which made them laugh. He says he doesn't feel like a drink at the moment anyway and wonders how he is going to manage going out with his friends back in the UK for a few pints and a curry. It was all very light hearted and we had a good laugh but the result was yes, he can drink if he feels like it. We left the clinic and were told we would need to go back every three weeks to see Michelle and Louise, cancer nurse would call him every week to check he is OK and he needs to fill in a dairy daily.

We then drove to the estate agents and signed the lease. They are far more professional than the agent we rented this house from and she told me she comes to inspect the property every three months. So, it is all signed and the bond and rent paid. Yeah!

Jon then went back to work and I popped down to the Red Cross and saw Sharon and took all our pans in that we don't use. I had a chat and then drove home for some lunch. The builders is laying the base with compressed sand and plastic and then the ironwork goes over the top. He appears to be a very good builder. He gave me a copy of the time line for the build. Initially, the owner had told us it was a 'quick two week job'. The time line shows it will take till 4 December before it is finished - somewhat more than two weeks. Not only that, the owner told us we would have a nice new garage to use at the end of the building work. I don't think so unless, as the builder says, we have a 4x4 as there is a huge step up to it and all the path and drive will have to be altered.

I went to help with the books but there wasn't much to do but I did take back our books and jigsaws that Jon has finished.

I got home and Jon called to say he had sorted out the utilities. We were given a form to sign at the agents and she faxes it to a company and they change all your utilities for you and it was so quick and easy. Jon told me that he had also emailed the landlord to tell him we would not be renewing the lease but we haven't heard back.

I went out and told the builder but he said he had had a call from the landlord already.

I brought some boxes home from the book rooms and started to pack all the books up not much but a start.

Jon came home and told me the removal men are booked for next Friday!!!! So, I have to pack up a house and be ready for them. We don't hang around. I am really looking forward to living in a nice, modern, sunny house again.

We had lots of children coming round for 'trick or treat' tonight. I didn't really have much to give them but sorted out some cereal bars and things but all healthy stuff and I am not sure they were impressed. I did find some sweets but then nobody else came after the initial gangs.

We had dinner and watched TV and I am so tired I really must try and get an early night.

WEATHER
Sunny 22 degrees

A new house!!

We were both up early this morning and got ready - Jon for work and me for keep fit. The bricklayer arrived at 7.30 and started to put the block base around the garage. There is a big step up to it so not sure what will happen with that.

I took Totty out for here walk before I went to my class and it was so warm and sunny. Could this be the start of summer?

It was a really good class but very warm. I stayed to have a coffee and then went to make a doctor's appointment as I still have this pain and wonder if it could be a hiatus hernia?

I went to the supermarket to buy some bread and then went home and the bricklayer had gone so a peaceful house.

I rang the theatre about Mary Poppins tickets as I had an email to say they could not refund but we could book for a later date as it has now been extended. I booked for 23 December which is the day before we pick Heather up and hopefully Jon will be well enough to drive by then.

I intended to do some cleaning but thought I would just see if any new houses had gone up on the ten or so web sites I check on.

I found one that had been up for a day last week and we did have a look at the outside but it was taken down very quickly. I rang the agent and arranged a viewing at 4.00 and then called Jon to tell him.

Just as I put the phone down the other agent called to say he had the keys to the house we were waiting on so I arraigned a viewing at 2.30 and called Jon who said he would meet me there.

I just had time for a quick sandwich and off I went. The house from the outside looks nice and it has wonderful views from the back but inside it is very old fashioned with fluffy carpets and net curtains and a pale pink bathroom and I can't see us living in it at all.

We got home and Jon had his lunch - late! We left to go and see the other house and we both fell in love with it. It is bright and modern and clean. The views are amazing and the garden is beautiful and the rent includes a gardener. The agent told me there was another couple going to have it but she found out she was pregnant and it is not a house for babies which is why it went back up on the web again. She said another couple had wanted it, too. We told her we could move in ASAP and it was a company rent and we want long term (the owners have gone overseas). She said she would go back to the office and decide and call me. She did say that she liked us better than the other couple as she said the lady was 'in her face'.

We got home and I was on pins. The phone rang and it was the agent, Karen and she asked for Jon's passport number to do an ID check on us and then she said assuming that was OK the house was ours. I was soooo excited and told her but I think she knew by my reaction. We go into the office after Jon's clinic appointment to sign the lease and pay the bond. Once that is done Jon is going to email the owner from here and give him notice and hopefully we can pack up and be out by 9 November. So now we have soooooooooooo much to do I don't know where to start.

I made dinner and we watched some TV. I watched 'One Born Every Minute' for the first time and cried so not sure I will watch it again.

Off to bed now for some sweet dreams. This is the best news.

WEATHER
Sunny and a warm 23 degrees

Another disappointment

Last night just before I logged off I checked one more time on the house listings and found a house that had potential so I rang first thing and asked them to arrange an appointment which they did for 1.30.

The other house we were due to see at  10.30 didn't happen as the spare keys did not arrive from the owner and the tenants were not in so we have to wait till we can view it.

The builders were here bright and early and got on with putting all the iron base in so a little noisy and I had to carry Totty past them as she would not walk!!

I had a really good spring clean this morning and washed all the back windows, well the ones I can reach, inside and out. I cleaned the kitchen cupboards and did my normal Monday housework. I want to get things more or less ready to move just in case we don't get much notice.

Jon's bottom was sore yesterday and worse today so he decided to work from home as he can stand up and he does actually get more done. He decided he wanted a coffee so he went out for them today and I carried on with my cleaning.

I rang the theatre to ask if we could get out money back for Mary Poppins as I don't think Jon could drive all that way at the moment and then sit for three hours. I had to put it in writing and am waiting to hear. We have booked the hotel and we know we can't get our money back for that so not sure what we will do.

We went over to view the house which looked a bit like a Hansel and Gretel type and had a small swimming pool in the front. From the Google map it looked very nice and in a lovely area. When we arrived the gardener was just having a look around as he was going in to blitz it all as it was neglected. The agent arrived and let us and another lady in. Such a disappointment, it was dirty and old and needed painting, the bathroom was old fashioned and they were in the middle of replacing the basin and putting in a new shower all in white but they were leaving the old pink bath and the separate loo was a bit rubbish, too. Outside was  double garage with a double bedroom above but the garage was full of junk at the rear and it was going to be boxed in and the bathroom here was also in a state. Around the side was so much junk and old wood we could not believe it and it was $465 a week. Such a shame as it has the potential to be a lovely house but I really don't think they will get that amount of money for it in the state it is in.

I asked the agent if there were any plans for decorating and she said no. It will be interesting to see how long it is available.

On the way back we went to view the one we should have seen this morning as it was not far away. It is in a lovely quiet cul de sac and from what we could see had lovely views from the back over to the inner harbour, Matakana Island and The Mount. We just have to wait for the keys now. I did call the agent again while we were there and she did tell me we were the preferred tenants so fingers crossed it is nice inside and we can get to see it. It is not available till 20 November.

I got back and then spent the rest of the afternoon searching the various letting agents, I am wasting so much time on this and it is not an easy task. Fortunately, I took a shepherd's pie out of the freezer so no dinner to make.

I started on my ironing and got quite a bit done. We then had dinner and watched some TV.

WEATHER
Warm and sunny 20 degrees.

A busy day

Could not believe Tot last night she did another poo in the bedroom and I have been so careful with her food and don't give her anything other than her meals. Once I had cleaned it up I then spent ages lying awake thinking that to move into a brand new house with new carpets would not be such a good idea as I would constantly be worrying about the dog 'doing' something. I really don't know why she won't bark to wake me now like she used to.

Once up this morning I had to clean the carpet again!!

I cooked us some scrambled eggs for breakfast and then took Totty out for a walk and Jon came, too. It was a lovely day really warm and sunny. We got back and I hung out the washing and then we went off for a coffee.

We just went down to Bayfair and then on the way back took the rest of the recycling as I want to sort out the garage.

We got back and I asked Jon to sort out the shelves in the garage when he felt like he could stand long enough to do it. I cleaned the rest of the garage which, due to storing the logs there, was very dusty. I took the kayak out and washed that ready to put it on Trademe to sell as I really don't think we are going to get a house near the water again.

It really didn't take long and apart from the end coming off the hose and soaking me it all went pretty well.

We had lunch and then went to sit in the garden. The new lounger I bought yesterday is not very good and seems to like folding me up inside it! Totty was not impressed either and went to sit with Jon on 'my' sun lounger!!!

We had been growing some silver beet in the planters but it was not doing very well so I asked Pat, from next door, if he would like it to put in his vege bed to see if it would do better. He said he would so I dug it all up and gave it to him. I also gave him all the off cuts of wood that the man down the road gave to me a few weeks ago as I don't think we will be having many more fires at least I hope not, I put it all in the builders wheelbarrow and Pat came round to take it. So far he has not brought the barrow back so I will have to be up early in the morning and pop round and get it before the builder comes and wonders where it is!!

My friend, Lorraine, called to say that the man who owns the new house we were hoping to rent has now decided he is going to live in it so we have lost that one. I more or less knew we didn't have it and maybe it is a good thing as if people mess you around and can't say yes or no then it is not worth getting involved.

I cooked a pork hock for dinner which was OK but the mashed potato and broccoli were still like invalid food but once again Jon enjoyed his dinner so never mind.

We watched NZ Got Talent and I have to say it is as fixed as the UK and US, such a shame. Some good acts but so fixed.

I found a nice house tonight and it is on the site of my friend's husband's agency. It has a pool and looks nice so hopefully we can get to see that one tomorrow as well as the other one.

WEATHER
Sunny spells and some cloud 19 degrees

My first breath test.

The party didn't keep us awake last nigh but they were still going till very late.

We woke to a sunny and peaceful day - no builders.

I had an appointment to have my eyebrows shaped and tinted at 10.00 so we set off into Tauranga and when I got to the salon, it is where I have my hair cut, I asked if there was anyone free to cut Jon's hair as he was beginning to look like the Wild Man of Borneo!

I went off to have my treatment and they fitted Jon in at the same time. the girls that did my eyebrows has just started at the salon on Fridays and Saturdays and Dana, my hairdresser, had asked her yesterday if she could fit me in. I found out that she is from the Wirral would you believe! She said she was dragged out to NZ when she was 16 but, after 14 years, she is very happy here. She was really nice and we had a lovely chat and she did a head massage on me while the tint was taking - very nice.

Once Jon and I were finished we went around to the Dry Dock Cafe and had a lovely coffee and muffin and sat outside in the sun. the owner apologised for the noise from the bar across the road. It was a stag party and at 10.30 they were already drinking beer and the groom was dressed as Snow White. I am sure it was going to be a long day and would have liked to see what they looked like at the end of it.

We did a bit of shopping and went to the post office before going back to the car and we went across to The Mount to the Hot Rod show that was taking place in the main street. We thought it would be quite small but the whole street was packed with cars on both sides. In the middle of the street near the main car park they had a group playing rock and roll and people dancing in 50s costumes.

The Cornish Pasty man was there selling pasties so we bought one and it was so good. We walked the full length of the street and back and Jon was then looking a little tired so we went back to the car.

We stopped off at Bayfair to buy some shopping and to look for a sun lounger, we have one but now Jon uses it more than me so we need another. Not sure what is going on but the shops don't seem to be stocking them this year as we couldn't find one.

When we got home I checked the answerphone as I was hoping to have a call about the house but nothing yet. I really don't think we are going to get the new one so I hope the one we see on Monday is nice or we are really stuck.

We went home and I took Totty out for a walk and then I went across to one of the big DIY stores to see if I could get a lounger. I stopped off to see if there were any tickets left to go and see Annabel Langbein a NZ cook who has a TV programme and I have one of her books. One of the girls who I work with at the Red Cross said she would like to go to her demo and I wanted to go but didn't want to go on my own but it seems like we might have left it too late as tickets are sold out. the shop does have some on hold and we are on the list for first refusal so maybe we will get to see her.

On my way to the DIY shop I was stopped at a 'random breath test', they are allowed to do this here but it was 2.15 in the afternoon. They must have been on a quiet spell as there were at least six police cars there. You just have to say your name and address into a machine and then it reads your alcohol level. I was fine.

I went to the DIY shop and found a bed, not exactly what I wanted but not bad. I then returned home and was stopped again. I told him I had just done it and he said I had to do it again!

I went to see Alison on the way back to give her a card and present for her birthday. I couldn't stay long so she has invited me for a cuppa next Thursday and a catch up about her trip to the UK to see her new granddaughter. Her daughter's in laws are from Newmarket and she spent a couple of days there and had a drive past our house so she now knows where we live!

When I got back Jon had just come in from the garden as Bertie was being very active. I made a cup of tea and we sat on the deck which was lovely but then a choppy breeze whipped up and we came in.

I sat and read my book for a little while and then remembered I had told Helen, next door, that she could have some lemons so went to pick them and took them to her. Her cat, Ruby, is not speaking to her as she took her to the vet yesterday to 'be done' and now she won't go into the house but I told her she was fine as she was in our garden and looked happy.

I cooked some roast venison for dinner tonight which was nice and then we watched some TV.

I tried to call my friend, Mary, tonight but my phone card is playing up and gives the engaged tone when I dial. I tried to use Skype but not having used it for a long time it seems to have fallen out with me, too. So, no phone calls till I can get things sorted. So I had better just go to bed.

WEATHER
Sunny and warm 21 degrees

Day 5 of the build

It was a lovely sunny day today and for once not cold this morning when we got up.

I managed to get ready for work and get Totty out for a walk before the builders started work so she did at least walk down the path without me having to drag her!

Jon and I left at the same time and left the builders to it. I closed the curtain so Tot couldn't see them and closed the door to the hall so hopefully she didn't bark all day.

it was busy at the shop and we had a good morning. A young man came in and wanted to buy a jacket, shirt and tie that were on a dummy. We told him he should try them on and the jacket fitted but the shirt was small so I went to the back of the shop where the shirts are and found him  a nice shirt to match the dark green jacket.

He was there with his sister and he told me that it was coming up to the second anniversary with his girlfriend and as she had never seen him dressed up - he only has jeans - he wanted to surprise her and take her out to dinner. I said it was a lovely idea and she should be very happy he was going to so much trouble.

He then decided he needed some trousers so after a quick look at him I sort of got the idea of the size, quite chunky, and I started to look for some trousers for him. He tried on three pairs and came out to show me each time. Sharon was back and forth and giving her opinion, too. Unfortunately, he took his shoes off to try the trousers on and with him going in and out of the changing room we soon started to smell his feet!!! I have NEVER in all my life smelt anything so terrible. It was all I could do not to gag and Sharon just had to walk away. I eventually said there were no other trousers and to choose one of the pairs I had given him and I quickly walked to the front of the shop.

He said he would look at some shoes first but I didn't stay to help! He eventually came to the desk to pay and the smell was awful. Fortunately, he paid cash as I don't think I would have been able to hold my breath long enough to do a card transaction. He didn't leave the shop them but went looking at household things with his sister but Sharon and I had to go outside for some air, we felt so sick.

Eventually he left and we had to go around and spray the whole shop to try and get rid of the smell. I really don't know how he has managed to keep a girl for two years she must have no sense of smell whatsoever!! Ugh!!!

I left the shop just after one and went into town as I had a few things to buy and I had a hair appointment. My hairdresser, Dana, has just come back from the Cook Islands where she got married. She told me she enjoyed her wedding day but not Rarotonga as it was like a third world country and not much to do and mostly old people there so sounds like Jon and I will have a good time when we get there!!

I think, apart from Fiji, all the S Pacific islands are like this as we found Vanuatu the same but we enjoyed it but we are old and not wanting lots of activity at night.

I went home and had some lunch and the builder was just finishing for the day, they have dug out all the footings and on Monday they are going to pour concrete. He said he will print off a copy of his time line so we know what he is doing and when, he is a very nice man. He told me he is saving to buy a pony for his daughter's fifth birthday.

When I got back I could see the gardener had been and cut all the grass. I had called to tell his father to leave the front as it is not worth it but the message obviously didn't get through. Still, when I got back at least none of the cars were on the grass!

One of the agents called to say a house we liked would allow a dog an would do a two year lease so we are going to see it on Monday but we can't move in till 20 November. Meanwhile, the house we really like is still not decided. If the owner gets the flat he wants then he will go ahead with the rental to us. He will know tomorrow and will give us a call. Hopefully, we will get one or the other. The brand new one is available as from now or at least when he gets the blinds up and dressing room fitted. What will be will be.

Jon didn't come home till gone 4.00 today so he had a long day but is feeling good.

I cooked dinner and it was very nice, pork chops with apple and cider vinegar.

Our neighbours to the left, the one that argues with her husband all the time and I don't speak to much, are having a very noisy party tonight. I think she and her husband are away and her two sons are staying in the house. I hope it calms down at midnight as it is very loud at the minute.

The forecast is good for the weekend and we have no builders so hopefully we can spend some time in the garden.

WEATHER
Sunny and warm 20 degrees

What a day!!

It was cold first thing but not much frost this morning. I was up and out by 7.30 to get down to Tauranga for my ultrasound scan. The builder wasn't even here.

I had the scan and she said it was all clear. I was relieved as I don't really want an operation but also disappointed as I now need to go back to the doctor to find out what the next step is.

I got home by 8.30 and still no builder. The owner had called and spoke to Jon who told him he was really p***** off with the whole thing. He said we had agreed to having the garage built so can't go back on it now. He offered to let us off with two weeks rent and Jon said the company pay the rent anyway so it would not benefit us but that it was not about money it was the inconvenience of it all. Jon told him he didn't want to talk about it anymore and told him to put it in writing and we got an email later. At the end of the email he said 'it would not be long and we would have a lovely new garage to use!!! As if we care for a few months we have managed the last 11 without one.

Jon was getting ready for work and a friend from Lions called to speak to me about the talk I am doing for her ladies group - a bit like the WI I think it is. We chatted for ages with stops for me to put Bertie on and then to say goodbye to Jon when he left for work. It was lovely chatting to her but next time I think I will go and have a cuppa with her and plan it as I didn't really catch up with myself again. Jean told me we all had to wear a posh hat tonight and posh frock so I now had to think where I could get a hat. I texted Bronwyn but she didn't get back to me till later. I rang Sharon at the Red Cross but she said there were no hats in.

I did some washing and sorted out some magazines and a few things that I can get ready just in case the move happens fast. I got things ready to take to the recycle station and the mattress and cushion to go back to occupational therapy. I called the district nurse about more bags and the cancer clinic to find out what time we need to be there on Monday. I was told it was now Wednesday at 11.40 and they are putting a card in the post.

So, by the time I did get out it was gone 11.00 and still no builder. I went to the OT to take the things back first. I then went on for a coffee. Jon had forgotten his phone so I carried on to the office and took that to him and had a chat with Mike and Lisa while I was there.

I stopped at the Hospice op shop and bought a hat and some flowers to decorate it with just in case I don't get one from Bronwyn.

I then went to the supermarket and got some things I needed for Jon's dinner and the take a plate I was doing for tonight's Lions' meeting.

On my way back I took the recycling and then went to see Bronwyn. I stayed for a cuppa and a chat and it was lovely sitting outside in the sun. The only hat she had was her wedding hat which was a bit too posh and I didn't want to ruin it even though she will probably never wear it again.

I left there worried I had stayed too long and the meat would get hot in the car. I had some magazines and lemons to drop off for Margaret and Sharon so popped round there for five minutes and then home.

I could hardly get my car in as there were so many vehicles in the drive and on the grass. Jon was home and had managed to get his car in thank goodness. I asked the builder when he would need to take our windows out and how long would it take (the whole job we were told would be two weeks). He said it would be the week after next and would take five days off and on!!! This is our bedroom we are talking about. I was not happy. He asked for a garage key as he said he had no power this afternoon as we were out. Usually we plug in a cable through the garage window for him. I told him no that I would prefer to plug it in and leave it out of the window every morning as I don't want them coming in when we are not here.

When I got in Patsy called to tell me that the owner of the house we want couldn't speak to his accountant till tomorrow but thought he would only want to do annual lease and would that be OK. We have agreed to this and hopefully he will re new it as I think that would be our best bet to get out of this house. Then I had a call from one of the other agents about another house and I was trying to find it on Google maps and it was just crazy.

I finally managed to unpack my shopping only to find that my meat was not in the bag. The girl had put it in a separate bag and not put it in my trolley!!!! So I had to go all the way back to Bayfair and the supermarket. I also realised I had not had any lunch so ate a pear!!!

They had put the meat back on the shelf and written it in a book so when I got there the customer service lady told me to go and choose more around the same price. I managed to find the pork chops, chicken and sausages that I had originally bought!! Off home again and it was by now 5.20 and I was supposed to leave around 5.30 and I still had this meal to make.

Fortunately, it was a couscous, bean and sausage salad and  got it done and got ready. I decorated my hat and it looked very good. I wore my wedding outfit which made me feel nice and I finally set off at 6.15.

The house we went to is beautiful with lovely views. There is a huge house next door, no, it is a mansion. It has been built four years but only one woman lives there. She is from Korea and her husband can't come and live here yet as he has to look after the mother in Korea who is 96!! They have children who are at university but don't live there. I asked if perhaps we could move in!!

There were some lovely dishes there tonight and I had a spoonful of most of them. Then we had the pudding which were really lovely, too. We all sat chatting and all in all it was a really good night. I took the wedding photos as people had asked me to and it was just what I needed.

Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day.


WEATHER
Lovely and sunny 19 degrees

Day 3 of the build

We got up this morning to a very heavy frost, practically unheard of at this time of year. I was so sorry I had not lit the fire last night as the house was awful. The only warm place was the utility and our bathrooms but we couldn't stay there all morning!!

The builder arrived with a digger and started to rip up the concrete at 7.30. He had to break it up first with the bucket of the digger and the whole house was shaking. He then ripped out all the plants and dug out soil and tipped it into a lorry in the drive. It was not looking nice out there. Just as well Jon left to go to work or it would have driven him crazy. My neighbour spoke to me this evening and said it was very unfair what was happening and how were we putting up with it.

I left to go to see the doctor as I have had a really bad pain in my side for weeks now and it won't go. I also have a really bad pain under my right shoulder blade. I had to wait half an hour as he was running late. This is the first time I have met him and he was much nicer than my old doctor, she was Scottish and not very nice at all.

He seems to think I have an inflammed gallbladder which will cause the pain in my back, too. I have had that pain for years and thought it was something to do with my bad swallow reflex that was discovered ten years ago and I thought I just had to get on with it. If that is what it is and they can sort it I will be very happy. He wasn't me to have blood tests, which I did on my way out, and an ultrasound which I booked and paid for privately or I have to wait for a consultant appointment which could take three months and I don't think I can wait that long as it is really uncomfortable and nothing seems to help. I got an appointment for 8.00 tomorrow morning so I will be out before the builders I think!

I got home and then did my washing and spent ages on the computer looking for a house. I found two possibles and called the agent but they said they will call me back.

I went over to Bethlehem to help sort books and I was telling one of the ladies, Patsy, about the house. She is real estate and said he should reduce the rent as that is not on. She told me of a possible house she knows of. The owner has been trying to sell it so it is brand new, he built it, but she thinks he might now want to rent it as it has not sold. She told me the address and said she would call me later to let me know.

Just as I got back the phone was ringing and it was her to say she had the keys and he would rent it and if we want to see it let her know.

I told Jon about it (he was home from work) and we looked it up on Google but as the photo was old it was just a plot of land. We called her back and made arrangements to meet her there in 20 minutes.

I drove and we got a bit lost but found it and it is really lovely. Brand spanking new. It is a bungalow in as much as it is all on one level but you go downstairs to the garage and to the rear garden which isn't much but it backs onto woodland and lovely walks across the marshlands and great views across to the hills.

It has three bedrooms one en suite and one main bathroom, laundry and a huge open plan living dinning sitting area which leads onto a deck, the main bedroom leads onto the deck, too. We both fell in love with it. We told Patsy we would like it and she said she would speak to him and give us a call later.

On the way out we drove down to the bottom of the road which is a cul de sac and went down the path to the boardwalks and it all looks very nice with lovely walks around there.

Just as we got home Patsy called to say we could have it but he needs to speak to his accountant tomorrow. It is a bit cheaper than this house but he will put a new dishwasher in, blinds throughout, fit out the dressing room with rails and shelves and as there is no heating he said he will put heating panels on the walls but as it is double glazed it should be warm anyway. So excited now but not looking forward to all the packing and moving.

We had a quick dinner tonight as it was so late and then watched TV. I lit the fire as it is going to be cold again. I really will not miss this house as it has been so cold here during the winter.

I nearly didn't go to the book rooms this afternoon but I am so glad I did!! Fingers crossed it all goes through. Our contract ends here on 11 November so we can move then anyway but we might be able to come to an arrangement with the owner. I asked the builder if I could see the plans today and saw that our two bedroom windows are due to be covered over and a small window put in the top of the gable bit. The owner never told us that he said it would be blocked off and would be a quick job to do it but the whole of the wall will need to be plastered. I am not sure how he thought we were going to sleep in there like that. You don't pay top dollar for a house and then expect to have it knocked down and walls rebuilt while you live in it. He has knocked the builder down so low on price and the builder has told me he does not want any hold up with the work as it will cost him. Hopefully, the owner will let us go ASAP and then he can knock what he wants down. Alternatively, we have the right to refuse to let him into the house to work as it is not essential. Hopefully, it won't come to that but I think so far he has been walking all over us and taking us for mugs  but we have had enough now.

WEATHER
So cold and a big frost this morning but 19 today and clear sunny sky.

Day 2 of the build.

We were up today just like a normal day again and both getting ready to go out and it worked. Jon was ready to leave by 8.30 o pretty good going. He didn't sleep much better last night though and neither did I - one day.

The builder arrived at 8.00 and started knocking more beams and posts down, it is so noisy and the dog just barks so I had to close the curtain on the door so she can't see them and just keep her downstairs so she can't see out of the bedroom either.

I left and went to my keep fit class which was really good this morning, a different routine and really good 60s music. I stayed for a coffee and a chat and then on my way home stopped into the blood testing place at the local surgery. The surgeon gave us a form and said Jon needs blood tests every three months but he didn't say when to start so I thought I would ask at the surgery. The receptionist told me to leave the form and the lady in charge would sort it out and call us when he needs the first one.

I got home and the phone rang and it was the blood clinic and she said she was looking for Jon to do the test!!! Anyway to cut a long and very annoying story short I need to collect the blood form from them and Jon needs to go for the first test three months after his surgery. I really think she could have been more pleasant the way she told me but never mind it takes all sorts.

I did some washing, housework and cleaning and got a lot done. I haven't had a morning like this for a long time. I had lunch and watched neighbours and then did some ironing.

I had a long phone call to my friend Janice who I haven't spoken to for ages as she has been away at Rotary meetings with her husband and then had grandchildren to look after so it was good to catch up.

Jon was not home by 2.30 so I called the office and Tracey, the receptionist, said that she could just hear voices and so it sounded as though the meeting was finishing. I told her to tell Jon to come home so she said she would pass the message on and she did as he was home soon after. He had a good morning and found the drive no more uncomfortable than when he is a passenger. He didn't do much else for the rest of the day though.

I cooked shepherds pie for dinner and then we watched some TV.

It is pretty cold again tonight and we might have a frost in the morning!!!

WEATHER
Cloudy with sunny spells and showers 14 degrees

Bank Holiday Monday

I was up at 7.00 to let Tot out and then went back to bed for 'five minutes' and woke up at 8.00!!

Jon didn't get up till gone 9.00 as he had not slept well again. He is going to try sleeping back upstairs in our bed and hopes he doesn't wake me up too much!!

I called Kirsty as I have been trying to get onto the website to look at her wedding photographs and even after her giving me the password I couldn't do it. I manged to catch her in and she told me what to do so I have now been able to see them. The ones of her and James are lovely but I am not sure I like all the black and white ones, I prefer colour. There are some I will get copies of though. they bought the rights to the CD so I can get copies from them. I thought it was rather a shame that there isn't a group one of all the family and only the one taken from the upstairs window which is not very good and I have my eyes closed on it. I like the more traditional line up photos of the brides family on one side and the grooms on the other but it was their choice to have them like that.

We went out for coffee very late so late it was nearly lunch and as I had not had any breakfast we decided to have brunch. On our way we drove past a house we knew was for rent. It was very nice and in a quiet part of the city centre next door to the Elms Mission House which is a tourist attraction and has lots of visitors in the summer from the cruise ships. Unfortunately, the fence was low and therefore not very private and I don't fancy being on view to American and Australian tourists when I am sitting in my garden.

We then went across to the Mount and our favourite cafe near the beach was really busy and Jon couldn't find anything that he could eat so we went to downtown the Mount and had a very nice lunch sitting in the sun. We then had a walk around the shops before going home.

I took Tot out and then did a few bits and bobs. I have been sorting out a few cupboards just in case we suddenly find a house and have to move. I can't believe how much we have accumulated in 11 months!

Jon took the car out for a drive to see how he felt. He thinks he will be OK to get to work tomorrow which is good as they have a board meeting and I have a keep fit class so it would have been difficult.

I spent a couple of hours trying to sort out a problem with my eReader. I bought two books but only one has downloaded but I have paid for both and I am still not sure what has happened. I will try again tomorrow.

I had to shave Jon's neck today as the hairs are really long and he looks a bit scruffy and he hasn't been able to get to have a haircut. He now looks a bit tidier and no blood was shed!!

We just had a sandwich tonight as we were full from our brunch so didn't want much - nice and easy.

WEATHER
Cloudy with sunny spells 18 degrees

Sunday

It took me ages to get to sleep last night, not sure why but it really makes me angry when that happens.

It had rained a lot overnight and it was very dull first thing but the sun did come out later. It was colder inside our house than outside.

We called Malcolm again this morning and we had a good long chat with him which was nice.

We then went out for a coffee to the garden centre and then on to the Warehouse as I wanted to buy another couple of blankets for Totty so that I can get her others washed. he only had two and to wash one at a time seems a waste of a load so now I will be able to wash three at a time and still have one to use.

We bought some bread and a pie for Jon's lunch and then went home.

I took Totty out for her walk as the sky was getting very black and I thought it would be the last chance for the day.

I lit the fire as it was so cold due to no sun. I don't know what we would do without the fire.

We didn't do much for the rest of the day. We had lunch and watched some TV and then I made a lemon cake and some banana and chocolate chip muffins. I went out to pick some lemons and they are now really big and juicy and I got five and a half tablespoons of juice from one lemon!

We had roast chicken for dinner tonight and then watched NZ Got Talent - mmmmmm! They had so many good ones on last week but this week was not so good. A bit of a fix like it is in the UK and US I think.

WEATHER
Cloudy and windy with rain later 18 degrees.

A nice sunny day

We were both up at t sensible time this morning and I cooked breakfast and we were able to have it out on the deck for the first time this spring.

I tried to call Malcolm this morning but he was not in, probably at the pub as it was Friday night.

Bertie was well behaved and so Jon was ready early and came out for a walk with me and Totty.

When we got back I hung out some washing and then we drove over to Maungatapu (where we used to live) to look at a house that Jon had seen was for rent. It is right down on the water so would be good for the kayak but unfortunately it is very close to the bypass and I think the noise would be constant. I know it is not like a main UK road but it is still quite busy. The house, from the outside looked nice but it was very close to the neighbour and the garden was not fenced. In a way I am glad it was not suitable as I think a move now would be too much for Jon.

We then went into Tauranga and had a coffee and a lovely date scone. It was then off to the library again - Jon has never read so many books in such a short space of time!!

I bought some birthday cards on the way back to the car park and by the time we got back to the car Jon was very tired. I think he needs to start going out everyday and just walk around the block to get back into doing something.

He had to have a lie down when we got back before I made lunch.

This afternoon was lovely so we sat out in the garden but clouds kept coming over and then it would feel quite cold.

I cooked a tomato and lamb sauce tonight and we had it with spinach and pasta and it was tasty and then we had pears with ice cream and hot chocolate sauce which was yummy.

The forecast for tomorrow is not good so not sure what we will do.

WEATHER
Mostly sunny with some cloud 19 degrees

Day 1 of the build

We were up this morning but not ready when the builder arrived - Jon was not impressed. The builder didn't start work straight away as he was waiting for a new guy to turn up but he didn't show. He asked us to move our cars as he did not want any of the car port to blow onto our cars. He also said that he would be leaving the rubbish down on the grass near the gate as the owner did not want to have a skip. Jon told him that was not acceptable as we didn't want to be living with a pile of rubbish for the next few months.

Not long after the owner called and fortunately for him I answered. He told me that a lot of the old car port would be used with the new build so he did not want to throw it away. We came to a decision of leaving it against the fence down the drive to the side of the house and they have now stacked it all there and very tidy it is. The rest of the rubble the builder will take away in his trailer.

I left for the shop and Jon would be picked up later. Fingers crossed it goes well. I have told Jon not to get stressed by it but he says he is going to look for another house to move. That, I think, would be silly as by the time we can move hopefully, the new garage will be built. I left the house with a splitting headache.

It was lovely being at the shop and we chatted and were busy for most of the morning. Madori, the Japanese lady was back, she has been off with her two children for the school holidays. She is such a lovely girl and enjoys listening to Sharon, Les and I. She loves the cakes I take in every week and always asks for the recipes.

I left the shop just after one and went to do my shopping and I got back to the house at 2.30. I had to park my car at the bottom of the drive and carry all my bags up to the house and of the three men now working on the garage not one offered to help.

They have got a lot of it down but the wind is making it difficult. I went indoors and put my shopping away and made a quick sandwich. One of the builders knocked on the door and asked if we had a bin he could put some plastic in that he was taking off the roof. It was all breaking up as it was so brittle and I said that would be OK.

I went out to collect Jon from the office and he was more than ready to come home and didn't do much for the rest of the day.

The builders left just after five and cleared up very well. They won't now be back till Tuesday as it is bank holiday weekend. He took photos before he left to send to the owner I imagine and keep him up to date with what is getting done.

Once he had gone we went outside to have a look and I too took some photos. We had two ducks in the drive and I just managed to grab Totty before she grabbed them. I have no idea where they have come from as I have not seen a pond around here and I have never seen a duck. The more I chased them down the drive as soon as I turned my back they followed me up again. Totty was going crazy at the door and next door Helen was on her deck holding her cat so that she did not get them. Eventually between Helen and myself we got them out to the street and they went off somewhere.

Unfortunately, when we looked in the bin they had filled it to the top and had stood on it as it was really packed in. The binmen only came yesterday so we have a week with nowhere to put our rubbish. Jon has a lot of clinical waste from Bertie which goes in the rubbish so we need a bin - not impressed. We had to get a bag and transfer it all and tie it up and I shall tell the builder that he needs to get rid of it as we are only allowed our wheelie bin and if we take it to the tip we have to pay for it. Not a good start really. I think my few words to Jon must have done the trick as he seemed to take it all very well!!!

I cooked a nice dinner tonight and we both enjoyed it. It is all in the planning and that is what I have to do - plan ahead and hopefully I can make meals that satisfy us both and don't upset Jon.

Time to go to bed now an hopefully we can get out and do something tomorrow as the forecast is not bad but Sunday and Monday forecast is awful. This has been a very wet and windy spring.

WEATHER
Mostly sunny bu a cold wind again 16 degrees

An upset tummy

I was awake till 2.15 last night finishing my book, it was so good. Now I have to start a new one, I hate starting new books!

Jon was not well this morning and I am not sure what it was that upset him. It could have been the beans or the carrot and beetroot that he had in a sandwich at lunchtime. Whatever it was he was not good. It doesn't take much to knock him back these days. He chatted to Heather when she called and then he went back to bed for a lie down.

He got up later but it was too late to go into the office and he was still not right so he phoned to say he would work from home. He went downstairs and I did the ironing and watched some TV.

I made lunch but he could only manage a piece of toast and then went back to bed.

The district nurse came and I woke him. she wanted to have a look at the stitches around the stoma and take them out and he had not been looking forward to it. Fortunately, when she looked, they had all gone so they must have come out on their own in the shower - he was relieved.

I talked with the nurse telling her it was very difficult thinking of meals that satisfy both of us I think I might make a cookery book!!

Jon went back downstairs to the office and I did more ironing when she left.

We had an email to say the builder would be here tomorrow morning at 7.30 - 8.30. The owner asked if the builder could use one of our sockets to plug tools in. Not sure how long he is going to need that and if it is a lot who is going to pay for it. I am not being mean but this will not benefit us, quite the reverse it is going to be a pain and i don't see why we should be paying full rent, having all the inconvenience AND paying for the electricity to do it!!!

I just cooked plain fish, mashed potato, parsley sauce and peas for dinner tonight. Jon really enjoyed it, I hated it. Never mind it is good for the diet!!

I am off to the Red Cross tomorrow so somebody is coming over from the offfice to pick Jon up as he won't be ready to leave when I do. I will pick him up later. I have made him a sandwich to take so that is a good sign that he intends to stay for a while. Hopefully, tonight's dinner will not have any side effects.

WEATHER
Overcast with some very heavy showers 16 degrees

A busy day

I had a lovely sleep last night and I didn't wake once - good dog!

I did a load of washing first thing and hung it out and then took Totty out for a walk but she was very reluctant to go and we only got half way down the road and she stopped so we came back. I have no idea why she behaves like that sometimes.

It was then time to take Jon to work and I stopped to get him a coffee on the way. I left him at the office and said I would pick him up at 1.00.

I went off to meet the ladies I used to go swimming with and we had a coffee. They had asked to see the wedding photos and I took them along. They thought they were really lovely and loved the old church and the Jockey Club setting. I never appreciated life in England and all the history until I came out here and everything is so new We are very lucky and we have so many lovely countries in Europe to visit and they are on our doorstep.

We spent a lovely morning chatting and then the ladies left and it was still half an hour till I had to go for Jon so I went down to the Mount shops for a wander. Jon phoned to say could I make it 2.00. I then had a dilemma did I go home or wander some more?

I decided that I would go and see my friend, Carol,at the Red Cross at the Mount as she works there Wednesdays. It was nice to have a catch up as I haven't seen her for a while. She was sorting clothes and pricing them and she pulled out a very nice tunic type top and I tried it on and it fits really well, I just can't resist!

Carol was telling me that people had been saying Red Cross prices were too expensive compared to the new hospice shop that has recently opened down in the Mount and that they are not getting so many donations now.

We had a walk down to the bank to get some change and then it was time for me to leave as I had to drop of some books at the library.

The hospice shop is on my way to Jon's office so I stopped by as I was a few minutes early and thought I would check out the prices.

I found the crockery and kitchen things to be more expensive than we charge at the Red Cross but the clothes, and they didn't have much in, were very cheap. I noticed a pair of black leather shoes and I have been looking for some I can wear for every day and that don't hurt my bunion! These are brand new black slingbacks with a low heal and are so soft I just had to buy them and they were really expensive $4!!!! Two pounds, what a bargain.

I went to the office and Jon was still in a meeting with Rachel but said he wouldn't be long so I chatted to Tracey, new English receptionist, for a while.

When Jon had finished we left and as it was way past lunch we stopped into Bayfair and bought a sandwich before going home.

I was supposed to go to help with the books today but it was too late. Once Jon starts to drive himself it will be easier for me but at least he is feeling better for going into the office.

We didn't do much all afternoon, Jon is getting through lots of books. I heard on the radio news that there had been a strong quake up north this afternoon but I didn't see anything on the TV news so not sure how strong it was.

I made dinner and I gave Jon some beans tonight. Not sure how they will effect him but we have to try things and if it isn't good we won't try again but I am so fed up with what we are eating now and it is not good for my weight so I will have to do something about it.

WEATHER
Sunny spells but windy 19 degrees

A visit to the Cancer Clinic

I paid for leaving the pantry door open yesterday as Totty had to go out during the night, well in fact, it was not long after I had fallen asleep. AND when I woke this morning she had done another near the door. I seem to spend my life scrubbing this carpet. She is now on ABSOLUTELY no other food other than her two meal a day as the slightest change had a dire effect on her. I am not sure how much of the food she ate yesterday but it must have been a lot.

I decided not to go to my keep fit class this morning as I thought it would be pushing it a bit to get back and changed and out in time to make Jon's appointment. I was going to go for a long walk on my own instead. i can't walk far now with Totty and she is also very slow.

By the time I had helped sort Bertie out it was 9.30 and we had to leave at 10.35 so I was not going to get my hour done. As it happens, I was glad as I hadn't realised how unfit I have become and walking the route I did, up and down a couple of big hills, the thirty five minutes it took was enough. I got back and then went straight back out with Totty. Still it is a start and I need to try and keep it up. I can fit it into my day easily and around any driving I have to do for Jon.

We went to the clinic and had to wait a little while and we saw the registrar and all he really wanted to say was that they had finished their bit - the radiotherapy - and that they would be handing Jon over to chemo now. They say they achieved a 90% level which is good. He told us that the appointment with Michelle, the Chemo Oncologist, is on 29 October.

We left and went out to have a coffee but Jon was very quiet. We stopped at the supermarket on the way back and then came home. Jon said he was in pain, he had been sitting too much, and took some tablets and went for a rest.

I got on with some housework and hung out the washing. The weather was lovely in the sun but the wind was cold.

Jon got up and I made some lunch and he went down to the office to do some work for the rest of the afternoon.

I did some work on the talk I am going to do for one of the ladies clubs here. I am not sure how I will fit twelve years living in Spain into 20 minutes!!

I helped Jon sort Bertie out again this evening and it is bleeding quite a lot in a small area when he tales the bag off. I think maybe Jon needs to cut the hole smaller now as it has shrunk and maybe the opening is rubbing on it a little. I think we will have to mention it to the nurse when she comes on Thursday probably to take the stitches out!!! Jon is not looking forward to that :-(

I made the dinner, well it was already made and in the freezer so I heated it and did the vegetables and sweet potato. I only just had time to eat it and I had to rush off to pick up Margaret and go to the Avon Christmas night.

It was held at the area managers house and she had decorated it all with the Avon Christmas products and it looked beautiful. We had wine or juice and Christmas nibbles and it was a really lovely evening and I always enjoy chatting to Margaret so we had a good time.

I got back and Jon seemed to manage well and he even unloaded the dishwasher tonight and made my coffee so that is progress.

Hopefully, when I go to bed tonight Totty will let me sleep the whole night without having to get up!!

WEATHER
Sunny but a very chill wind 18 degrees

Back to work for Jon.

It felt really cold again this morning due to a sharp wind. I got up and ready and took Totty out for her walk.

Once Jon and Bertie were ready we set off to the office and picked some coffees up on the way. I left Jon and arranged to pick him up at 1.00 unless he called me sooner.

I then went into Tauranga to buy a birthday present for my elderly neighbour. It is so hard to find her something that is light and that will be useful. I finally settled on a shopping bag with her name on it and a pretty nailbrush with shells in the top that are in liquid so move around. They gift wrapped them and so I went straight to the post office and sent it off.

I also bought Christmas cards and some of the Christmas stamps. Hopefully, I will get them out on time this year as last year I was very late.

I just happened to pass by a nice shop and spotted a really nice jumper which I bought!!

I got back and just had time to vacuum before going out to collect Jon.

He looked a bit tired but I think it will do him good to be back.

When we got in Totty had spread her bag of biscuits right across the floor and eaten a lot. I have been so careful to close the door but rushing out I forgot. I cleaned them up and had to vacuum again as there were crumbs from the kitchen to her bed at the other end of the room where she had dragged the bag. I am happy to say she seems to be able to hear me a bit now so she did hear her telling off.

I made lunch and then I carried on with my housework and Jon read his book.

We had dinner, a meal from the freezer that I had cooked a week ago so nice and easy. We watched some TV and now Jon is doing his jigsaw and I am going for an early night.

WEATHER
Sunny spells but cold wind 19 degrees.

Quite a normal day!

Not sure if it was as cold as this at this time last year but it is still pretty miserable.

Jon was watching the F1 this morning which was recorded. He had had a good night last night which surprised me after such a long afternoon nap.

I made breakfast and then I took Totty out for her walk. I am not sure but I think she might be able to hear a little - fingers crossed.

We went into Tauranga for a coffee and Jon managed to sit in the car and didn't make any noises while I was driving so that is an improvement - that is with his bottom not my driving for any of you who are thinking that!!!

We had a really good coffee and shared a date scone which was yummy - I hope it doesn't affect him.

We then went to the library and I read the magazines while he chose his books.

We then went across to The Mount and the Good Food Shop so that I could buy some meat for dinner, I love that shop. Next stop was to Bayfair so that I could get my contact lens solution from Specsavers.

We got back home and we were too full up of scone for lunch so we read the papers for a while.

I made lunch later and then I started to prepare for the talk I have been asked to give to a ladies group on 'life in Spain'. You can get photos on everything now and it is all so easy. I had a real trip down memory lane and worked my way down the coast from the Costa Brava to Barcelona, Tarragona and Salou and on to Valencia. I checked out the websites for the hotels I worked at and they have been re vamped and are now very modern, especially the two in Salou. I spent a lovely afternoon with lots of happy memories. I just wish I was still in touch with a lot of those people I worked with - happy days.

I cooked some nice Asian pork fillet for dinner and we had stir fry veg. Jon had no bad reaction from last night so I think I might try a few more things little by little.

We watched the Grand Prix, well Jon did, I read my book. We then watched NZ Got Talent and they had three very good singers on not sure about the rest though. Watch this space.

WEATHER
Sunny spells with some late showers 18 degrees.

A very wet day

When I came down this morning Jon was asleep on the sofa as he had a bad night.

I cooked us a full English this morning but the black pudding is not as good as you get in England!!

Heather called and we had a long chat to her and then Jane called and we had a long chat to her.

The rest of the day we did nothing but read and watch TV as it was too horrible to go out. I even lit the fire as it was cold in the house. Jon has just started his third jigsaw puzzle!

Jon fell asleep this afternoon and so I finally caught up with Neighbours - the first time I have been up to date since we got back from our trip.

The man from down the road brought me another box of wood this afternoon. He is renovating his house so it is all off cuts but burns well. Hopefully, we won't need much more.

I made chicken stroganoff for dinner tonight. Jon is not allowed to eat mushrooms as they can cause a blockage so he had to pick them out. I gave him some peas tonight for the first time and leeks. We will have to wait and see what effect they have on him. I am getting so fed up with broccoli and carrots and I just need to try and get us on more normal food so it is a little at a time and see what happens.

WEATHER
Strong winds and lots of heavy rain 19 degrees.

A lovely sunny day

I just knew, when I was getting into bed, it was going to be a bad night with Totty and I was right. She had me up so many times as she was whimpering and could not settle. I had to let her out once and then at 2.30 she finally went to sleep, poor little dog.

She was much better this morning and is eating no problem but she still can't hear.

I was up and ready to leave for work before Jon got up. He told me just as I was leaving that he, too, had had a bad night. I should have let Totty sleep downstairs with him!!

I got to work and we had a busy morning but still no coat hangers so we couldn't put stock out. I tidied all the children's clothes and remember putting out some little skirts as they were so tiny and one was a tiny pink tiered skirt, really cute. Later in the morning I noticed three coat hangers on the rail empty and the little pink skirt had gone. I asked Sharon if she had served anyone with it and she said no. I really don't understand people who steal from charity shops they really are the lowest of the low.

The area manager, Bronwyn, came in about 12.00 to interview for a new person to help out in two other shops and allow Bianca to work less hours. I have worked in the shop for three and a half years and this woman has said good morning to me 'once' and that wasn't today. She is such a rude woman and if she treats all the volunteers like that I am surprised anyone works there. Just as well she doesn't get over here very often.

I intended to go to the library after work but I wore shoes today instead of my boots - well it is spring! Not being used to shoes my feet were killing me so I had to go home and will go to the library tomorrow.

I got home and we had lunch. Jon did some work down in the office today so things are improving.

We had dinner and watched some TV.

WEATHER
Sunny 20 degrees

Off tot he vet

I was up twice last night with Totty as she had the trots again! Another scrubbing session on the carpet.

She wasn't allowed breakfast this morning much to her disgust. I took her to the vets at 8.00 and I usually just hand her over to the nurse but this morning they told me to take her through and I had to put her in a cage and leave her. Needless to say she was barking like crazy.

I got back home and had breakfast and did some washing and hung it out and then fed the birds. We have a lot in the garden now, sparrows, starlings, tuis, kingfishers and we do have to be careful of the big black and white gulls as they would eat all the food if they weren't stopped.

I prepared 650grms of grated carrot for a cake I wanted to make this afternoon. They have to be left to soak with sugar for an hour.

I popped out for some coffee while we were waiting for the nurse to come. Jon was dreading it as she was going to take the stitches out. When she arrived she said they could stay in till up to six weeks. She said they often just come out on their own but if not then we can go to the surgery to have them taken out. The relief on Jon's face was amazing. So she didn't do anything today. The usual nurse will be back next week.

I then went off to the supermarket to do some shopping and then got back for a late lunch.

The vet's nurse called to say I could collect Tot so I went down the road to get her. The vet said he had cleaned out a lot of debris from her ears but hadn't wanted to poke about too much for fear of it causing more problems. He had clipped her nails, too. They had given her a general anaesthetic and she was very sleepy.

I got her home and she stood by her food bowl so I fed her and she ate it all. After her dinner she just walked around making little crying sounds so I think her ears must be painful.

I made the carrot cake and it looks nice but what a pain of a recipe. I used that many bowls and jugs and had so much to wash up.

Jon had been up and down to the office today doing work then coming back for a rest and then he finally gave in and had a nap.

We had a cup of tea but it was later than usual and as I was going out to my Lions meeting I needed dinner early but wasn't hungry so I just left Jon's dinner cooking in the oven and I had a sandwich when I got back later.

The meeting was good and we had a new member enrolled tonight. She is from the UK and has been here for three months. Not sure how old she is but she has three daughters, 14, nine and four so she can't be that old. She seems very nice.

When I got home Jon told me that Totty had just been walking round the house all night and had only just got into her bed as I came home, poor little dog. I hope she feels better tomorrow and I hope she sleeps tonight!!

WEATHER
Warm and sunny 20 degrees

It's that appointment all ladies hate!

I was up nice and early to get ready for 'that' appointment. Yes, it was my routine smear today, don't you just hate it??

Heather called just before I left so I had a quick chat to her and then left - glad it was an early appointment, I hate waiting all day.

I arrived at the surgery and had to wait for about 20 minutes and read and copied a nice recipe for barbecued pork fillet which I will try when the weather gets warmer.

I was called in and I know, from past smears, that they like you to lie on your side here which is in actual fact a little more dignified. Sometime it works with me and sometimes not. Today, the nurse told me she likes ladies to 'jump up and down on the spot a few times'. So, before getting up onto the bed, I did. Just as well I don't need those Tena lady things!!!! It must have worked as she had no trouble and it was all over and done with so fast. I was impressed. So ladies next time you have to go for a smear try jumping up and down a few times before you get on the bed!!

I paid my $38 and left to go and get some coffee to take back for Jon and I.

I got home and we had our coffee and in the middle of it Jon had a phone call to say there had been an accident at the port and one of their contract workers had had his foot severed in a winch!!! After that the phone was hot with calls to and from various people at the office. Not much is yet know as to how it happened and there will be an investigation.

I took Tot out for her walk and met Avon Carol doing her deliveries and we had a chat. Lovely and warm outside today.

I made lunch and then went across to Bethlehem to help with the books and spent the afternoon there. I did hear the news on the radio my way which said one of Genera's workers had lost a foot in an accident.

I came home and Jon told me the man had been flown to Waikato Hospital as they thought the man's foot could be re attached but it couldn't and his leg has been amputated just below his knee. How awful and he is only 41, very sad. Now we will have to wait and see how it happened. The men will be allowed back to work tomorrow though.

I brought some cookery magazines home with me and sat for a while reading and had a cuppa.

I made the dinner and we had spaghetti. I gave Jon some lettuce and cucumber with it. It is four weeks now but I don't know for how long we should not try new foods for. Hopefully, it will be OK with no side effects - literally!! Lol. Sorry!

We watched some TV and now I am off to bed as I need to get Totty to the vet for 8.00 tomorrow.


WEATHER
Mostly sunny 17 degrees

Tuesday

I woke up to go to the bathroom around 3.00 just as we had some amazing lightening but not much thunder. the one good thing about Totty being deaf is that she can't hear the thunder and so we don't have her running around barking - every cloud etc!

I was up early and got ready for keep fit. Jon got up a little earlier today and said he had had a good night and was feeling better. Kirsty called and had a chat to Jon, a quick chat to me as I was going out and then again on to Jon. She told us she had had an amazing time on honeymoon and she will get some photos sorted once they have looked through them all.

We had a really good class this morning but it did feel very warm. Viv came at the end of the class and had a chat to everyone and a coffee and people were pleased to see her. She does look well but how she manages to look after five grandchildren every day - eldest 11 and youngest 16 months - I don't know. I hope her daughter appreciates her, I think she deserves a medal.

We left the class and went across to Fraser Cove and sat in a cafe and had a 'proper' coffee and a lovely long catch up. We get on really well, maybe it is because she is a Gemini like me, and I do miss having her around. She goes back to North Shore tomorrow and will be back again maybe at Christmas.

I drove home and Jon told me the district nurse called and was going to take the stitches out from his stoma but he said they are in very deep and it was incredibly painful and she only managed to get a few out. She is now going on holiday but another nurse will come in on Thursday and bring some local anaesthetic to put around the wound and hopefully they can get them out.

I made lunch and my friend Carol (Avon) called to invite me to a Christmas themed night to be held at the area manager's house. Apparently she decorates it will all the Avon Christmas things and then has open house and you go along and have nibbles and look at everything and can buy if you want to. It is next Tuesday so I might ask Margaret if she would like to come along.

I rang the vet and took Totty along at 3.30 as she is still deaf and I needed to make sure she is not in pain and see if her ear is just blocked or she is deaf. The vet said he can see a jelly stuff down one ear and he can't get a good view down the other. He wants to have her in and sedate her and give them a good check with the other vet. We made the appointment for thursday and they will clip her claws at the same time as she hates it if she is not sedated.

As I was waiting at the desk for the appointment Totty was sitting by me feet and giving me the little growling noise that she does when she wants my attention. I looked down and she was sitting with one paw up begging and looking at the box of pigs ears and wagging her tail. It was a bit like sweets at the checkout in the supermarket! I told her 'no' and a man and a woman in the waiting room laughed and told me not to be mean as she looked so cute! Another $2.50 on an ear!!

I got back and Jon was having a nap and so I replied to some emails and tried to log on to the photographer's website to have a look at Kirsty's photos but I don't know her user name, she only gave me her password so I have emailed her to get it so I can have a look.

As I didn't get my tarte tatin made yesterday I still had a block of puff pastry to use so I made a sort of apple turnover with the apples I cooked yesterday and added some cinnamon and with the rest I made some palmiers which are very nice.

We had dinner and the apple turnover was yummy.

We watched an episode of Lewis and then it was bedtime.

WEATHER
Sunny spells 18 degrees

A wet Monday

I was up bright and early again this morning and got all my sheets on to wash though I had to use the dryer as the weather was not good.

Jon didn't get up till late again as he said he had a bad night.

I spent the morning doing the usual Monday housework and cleaned out the fire as I thought we would probably need to light it later - no sun means very cold house!

I managed to get Tot out for her walk. I will have to take her to the vet as she is still deaf and the medication is finished now so not sure if her hearing will come back at all.

Jon did a bit of work down in the office but came up and felt bad so went and had a lie down. I had to wake him for his lunch.

I had called the surgery to request a repeat of the Tramadol as he had finished all he got from the hospital. They told me it would be ready for collection later in the day so after lunch I went down to collect it.

I could not believe that they charge $20 for a repeat prescription - that is ten pounds!!!! Seems surgeries down here are going the same way as the UK surgeries - making money is what is important.

I got back home and did all my ironing and got the beds re made.

I decided to make a tarte tatin this afternoon and had a disaster with it once again. I used to knock them out with no problems in the UK but don't seem to be able to find a good recipe and have a lot of trouble with the caramel. I made it twice today and neither worked very well. I just don't know what I am doing wrong.

Jon had fallen asleep again and so by the time I had finished my cooking disasters and got the dinner ready I had to wake him. He will be very lucky if he sleeps tonight but I don't think I will have a problem.

WEATHER
Cloudy with some heavy showers 18 degrees

Sunday

I woke at 7.00 this morning and felt wide awake after my early night so I got up and showered. I thought Jon was up, too but when I got down he was still in bed and didn't get up till 9.30. He says he needs to start getting up in the morning at a sensible time and I agree with him - Bertie needs routine!!

We waited around again for a long time  for Bertie but in the end Jon decided to have a shower anyway. I hung out some washing and took Tot out and then we went into Fraser Cove for a coffee yeah we are out!!! And it was very nice.

We then went to the supermarket and Jon took charge of the trolley while I marched around and brought things back to the trolley, I probably walked twice as far as I would normally do but at least Jon was out and 'doing' something. I think by the time we got to the checkout he was glad of the trolley and was using it like a walking frame.

We drove home and I did a bit of cleaning and Jon watched some TV before I made lunch.

I put the sun lounger out in the garden as it was nice and warm and Jon went to sit outside.

I spent the afternoon making a spiced pumpkin cake and some little lemon buns all of which look pretty good and there are plenty to go into the freezer.

We had a cup of tea and then I brought the washing in. Totty went out into the garden with me and went down to the water. When I had finished I tried to call her but she is still so deaf. I had to walk down the garden and try and catch her attention. She was walking along the edge and I didn't want to give her a fright in case she fell in. The ear drops are finished now so I think I had better take her back to the vet and see what he thinks.

My friend Viv called today to ask if we can meet one day for a coffee as she will be going back up to Auckland on Wednesday or Thursday so we arranged to meet on Tuesday after keep fit.

I cooked dinner and we watched the Grand Prix and then watched NZ Got Talent!!!! Simon Cowell would hate it.

Another early night for me and then hopefully I can be up early again tomorrow. We have some very wet weather forecast for tomorrow though :-(

WEATHER
A cold start and then warm and sunny 19 degrees

Saturday

I had a lie in till 8.30 today mainly as I could not sleep last night and was awake for a long time.

I had a shower and washed my hair and then made a cup of tea and was on the computer when Heather called and chatted to us both and by the time she ended the call it was too late for breakfast for me. I couldn't be bothered to go and get coffee so we actually had one here!!

I didn't do much all morning apart from a few jobs around the house.

We had lunch - corned beef and horseradish sandwich!!! I can't remember the last time we had that and it was very nice.

We were due to go out to the Genera function but Bertie has not been doing much lately and so we waited to see if he would. It is really difficult to know what to do - go out or stay and hope for the best. I suppose once we are more confident we will just go out and cope with whatever happens.

By 3.00 nothing had happened so we went with fingers crossed. Jon took his cushion in the car but it was still uncomfortable. We arrived at the blow kart place and as it was so windy they were unable to use them so were using the drift karts instead and hopefully the wind would drop later. There were about 40 or so there and all were pleased to see Jon and we stood chatting for a while.

We then went across to the other side of the site to where they were doing archery and paintball shooting at animal targets and everyone was enjoying themselves. The lamb was on the spit roasting ready for a 5.00 meal.

We stayed for about an hour and then Jon felt he needed to sit down so we left which was a shame as it looked like a lot of fun although I did have a go at the shooting.

We stopped off at the butcher on the way back and the baker to buy a cake for tea. I bought an apple and custard swirl and she gave me one free as it was the end of the day.

We got home and had a cuppa and then I read my book for a while.

I cooked dinner - pork chops with apple, cider, mustard and cream which was very nice.

After a bit of TV it was time for bed.

WEATHER
Sunny spells but very windy 18 degrees

Friday

It was really cold this morning when I got up and we were back to condensation on the windows!! We got down to 6 degrees last night!

I got ready for work and hung out the washing. the forecast was for rain after lunch so I hoped it would dry and I would be able to get it in before the rain. As it happened the rain never came at all.

We had a busy morning at the shop as we now have lots of stock in but we have run out of hangers so we can only put things out as we sell stuff, the hangers have been ordered but not here yet.

I found a skirt that I thought Bronwyn would like and thought I would take a photo and send it to her but when I got my phone out the battery was dead. I am not having a lot of luck with this phone. I changed the plan I am on to give me more Internet minutes and I did it online but it doesn't seem to have worked so I need to go into Tauranga after work to the Vodaphone shop.

I called Jon to tell him I had no phone and if he needed me to phone the shop. He told me that occupational therapy had been out and brought him a new cushion which was good. I put the skirt for Bronwyn in a bag to hold for her.

The morning passed well and we were kept busy and I went over for our coffee and bought a sandwich for my lunch so that I wasn't starving hungry by the time I got home.

I left work and went into Tauranga and the Vodaphone shop is just near the car park. When I got there they were closed as they have relocated to - just near the Red Cross shop!!! The opposite side of the road but I had driven right past it!! Just as well I also had to go to the library or it would have been a wast of a trip.

I got back to the car and drove back to where they have moved to and had I noticed I would have been able to walk across and down the road a little from the Red Cross doh!!!!

I told the lady what I had done and she logged on and sorted it all out so hopefully I will now be OK as long as I don't let the battery run flat again.

On my way back I stopped by to see Bronwyn as I haven't seen her for ages. I went in and we had a catch up over a cuppa and I showed her the photo and she said she might go in and try it on.

I got back and Jon said Mike had called round with a coffee for him which passed the morning for him and his cushion is helping him and he can now sit down better.

I took Tot for her walk and brought in my washing and cooked the dinner. It was feeling a bit cold so I decided to light the fire just to keep the chill off for the morning.

Heather emailed me with the phone number for Rene's sister, Fran. She went to ask one of the neighbours where Rene was and they gave her the number. Fran was taken into hospital the day before we left and now that she is home Rene has been staying with her.

I was able to call tonight and had a chat with Fran and then she said 'Thank you for calling and I hope your husband will be fine, bye'. I thought she was going to call Rene to chat with me but she put the phone down!!! I didn't like to call again so will have to leave it a few days. Rene will probably be cross with her for not letting me speak to her. What would you do with them!!! At least I know they are both OK.

Off to bed now. We might go to the Genera 40th Birthday celebration tomorrow. It depends on how Jon and Bertie are feeling.

WEATHER
Cloudy with sunny spells 19 degrees

A check up with the surgeon.

I managed to get out of bed on time this morning and was ready to go to the hospital which is more than can be said for Jon. He was waiting for Bertie to perform and when he didn't was very worried that he would while we were at the clinic.

Typical when you have lots of time you have no trouble finding a parking place!! I dropped Jon at the door of the hospital and went to find a parking place and I did, straight away!! We got to the clinic 20 minutes too soon even after it taking Jon a long time to walk slowly down the corridor to the clinic.

We went into the consulting room on time which was good and the nurse removed the small dressing Jon still had on his tummy and he stayed lying on the bed as it was more comfortable than sitting.

Mark came in and examined his tummy and his bottom and said it was all healing well but obviously his bottom was going to take more time.

He told us that all the histology reports were good and he had achieved good clear margins around the tumour and that all the lymph nodes removed were clear which is all very good. He once again apologised to Jon for not being able to do the operation he had wanted and said he feels he let him down as he really thought it would have been possible. He did say that Jon would need a course of chemotherapy and they would be in contact in the next few weeks to arrange that. Unfortunately, he said it was going to be an aggressive course as they wanted to make sure there was nothing left of the cancer and as Jon was so young they wanted to make sure it was all gone so that he could have a long life. I am not sure that Jon realises what that could mean but we will cross that bridge when we come to it and if he has to lose his hair then so be it.

We also spoke to Helen, the stoma nurse, while we were with Mark and we talked of various options for Jon the main one being a smaller bag - mini Bertie!! At the moment the bag sits just where his trousers usually are so they hang down under his tummy - a big beer belly would come in handy here!! Jon also has to wear his shirts outside his trousers which he says, looks scruffy. Hopefully, in another few weeks the stoma area will shrink and he can wear a smaller bag. In six months they will consider the irrigation method which he would do once a day and they you just need a small cap on the stoma and a bag. She told us about  school teacher who uses this method so as not to disrupt her day in class and it works well and I think it would be a good way for Jon to go.

We left the hospital and Jon managed to walk all the way back to the car and we went for our first cup of coffee in a cafe and he really enjoyed it. I think we both feel very nervous when we are out as we are not sure how things are going to go. I think it is good for him to get out as being in the house all the time is not a good idea and you lose confidence.

We went home and I phoned the district nurse to get some bags for Jon and we just pottered about till lunch.

I went to the Red Cross shop and had a chat to Les and Sharon, I just needed to get out for a while. I then went to the supermarket and did my shopping.

I got home just as Jon was getting up from a nap and we had a cup of tea.

Poor Tot only got her walk at 5.00 as every time I went to take her we had a shower.

Occupational Therapy called when Jon was asleep and I noticed they had left a message to call them but it was too late when I noticed so Jon will call them tomorrow.

We had dinner and watched some TV. Jon said he felt he had made some progress today and did actually manage to sit at the table and do his puzzle for a while so hopefully he is healing. I think we tend to forget that it is only three weeks since the surgery. Being discharged from hospital so early now makes you think you should be better than you are but it all takes time and patience.

WEATHER
Sunny spells and a few showers 19 degrees.

Back to the books

Still finding it hard to get up in the mornings and would really like to be back into a routine.

After I was up and showered Heather called and we chatted for a while.

I phoned the pharmacy to request the morphine repeat prescription for Jon as he is just about to run out. We also had to call the nurse as he only has enough coats for Bertie till the weekend.

I took Totty out for her walk, well I pulled her around again!!

Jon got a nice get well card from his elderly aunt in the UK which he was really pleased about and it is a lovely card.

I took some photos of the front of the house when I got back mainly to see how the building goes. The owner called round to say the builders would probably start next week and it will take three weeks. I have my doubts as to it only being three weeks and I am not looking forward to it. Had we know the plans meant the new garage would need to be tied into the house and mean walls coming down and disruption to us we would not have agreed. Unfortunately, our lease is up in November but the owner has agreed to us staying till March and I worry that if we say we don't want him to build now he will tell us to move in November and that is not going to be possible with Jon being the way he is at the moment. All we can hope for is that the builder gets on with the job and doesn't have any problems with the project!

I made lunch and then I went out to help sort books at the book room for the book sale which is not far away now. It was nice to be with the ladies again and chatting to them all and the afternoon went over quickly.

I then went to buy a birthday card for my friend Les and to post some cards to UK and quickly ran into the supermarket to get some yogurt before going home.

Jon had just made himself a cup of tea and had fed Totty so that is progress. He did say he had had a funny tummy again after lunch today. yesterday I thought it was the soup bu we only had tuna today so not sure what is going on.

We had dinner and he managed to sit at the table but had to go back to the sofa for pudding but that is a little better.

We watched some TV and then I logged on to FB and spoke to my nephew who told me his partner was in hospital as she had a seizure which is really terrible for them and I hope she will be well soon.

We need to be up and sorted early in the morning as we have an appointment at the hospital at 9.50 and it will take Jon a long time to walk down to the clinic.


WEATHER
Sunny spells and some cloud 19 degrees.

A busy day in the kitchen

I felt so tired again this morning and really had to drag myself out of bed when the alarm went off just in case I went back to sleep.

I got ready and went to my keep fit class. I had told Jon the time I was leaving and he was having breakfast and watching TV and just as I was about to go he said he needed my help with Bertie!!! I had to go and he managed on his own. He needs to listen to me when I tell him things.

I had a really good class and worked hard. I stayed fora  quick chat and then went to the hospital to collect the cushion. When I got there they told me it was broken, we already knew that, and it could not be repaired. They are trying to get another one but not sure how long it will take.

i nipped into the hospital coffee bar to get some coffee to take to Jon. I noticed on the door that they have a Norovirus outbreak there, I am glad Jon has had his surgery and is home as that would be horrible.

I got back and a builder had parked across the car porch so I couldn't get in, he was waiting for the owner - another quote. We had our coffee and Jon was fine and had managed to change Bertie on his own.

I got ready to take Tot out and just as I got out there was a big black cloud coming over and it was starting to rain so we went back in only for it to pass by with not much rain so we went out again.

We had a tin of vegetable soup for lunch and I thought it tasted spicy but Jon didn't say anything. Unfortunately, later in the afternoon Jon had a bad reaction to it so we won't be having spicy for a while yet.

Jon managed to go down to the office for a little while and do some work while I did the ironing. I think he stayed too long sitting and then had to have a lie down but at least that is progress.

I had a busy afternoon in the kitchen. I used the half tin of condensed milk I had leftover from a previous recipe and made coconut macaroons. I then cooked chicken cacciatore, the recipe came from one of my cookery sites I look at and we will have that tomorrow. I cooked lambs liver for dinner and made more of the little buns that I made the other day and Jon likes so much. So all in all pretty busy afternoon.

We had dinner and then watched some TV then Jon did some jigsaw and I did my blog and now I am off to have an early night.

WEATHER
Sunny with some cloud and the odd shower 19 degrees.

A wet day

The hour made things difficult to get up this morning and I didn't wake till 8.30!! Jon didn't wake till nearly 10.00 as he didn't have a good night.

While he was having a shower I managed to vacuum and dust as I knew he would want to watch the golf once he was dressed.

We both watched the golf and it was very exciting. Just as it was nearing the end his boss called and wanted to chat and was on the phone for ages. We put the TV on pause and I was able to go upstairs and clean the bedroom and do the bathrooms and hang out the washing all before he finished.

We watched the end of the golf and then the district nurse came but she said she won't be back again till next Monday, unless we need her, to take the stitches out of the stoma.

The owner of the house called to say he would be round later with a builder.

We had lunch and then I went to the hospital to take the cushion back and as the technician was not there I said I would pick it up tomorrow.

I went to get the filter I had ordered for the vacuum cleaner and it cost me $59!!! I could have bought a new cleaner for less!!! I hope it doesn't need a new one of those too often, it is only ten months old now!!

I went to the Aussie Butcher to buy some meat and then came home just as the owner arrived. He came in for a chat and a cup of tea and then spent some time outside with the builder. He is coming back tomorrow with another two builders. He thinks he will get it started next week so I suppose we are in for a messy few weeks.

I cooked spaghetti for dinner tonight and hopefully that won't upset Jon as it did have onion in it.

Poor Totty is still deaf but her ear is not so red now.

We watched some TV and then I sent a few emails. I tried once again to call my elderly neighbour but still no reply so not sure what is going on there. I emailed another neighbour, Sharon, to ask her if she knows anything. If not I will have to pester Heather to go across and find out.

WEATHER
Cloudy with heavy rain late afternoon 19 degrees