The tree surgeon came to cut the lime tree down this morning but when he got up he could see another nest with two baby pigeons in so would not touch it. Today would have been a good day to have it down as the new patio is going down next week so it will make things a little more difficult for them. We have decided to wait now till 22 September and hopefully, the nesting season will be over but who knows with pigeons!
I did some work on the bay window scrapping paint and filler off them before getting ready for my dreaded breast screening.
I left to drive into Newmarket and took some curtains back that we had bought for Heather' bedroom. She now wants wallpaper on one wall so the patterened curtains will be no good so I changed them for some plain red ones. I also took more stuff to the charity shop.
I then ran out of time so had to go to the hospital for my x-ray but arrived very early. Fortunately, they were not busy so I went in straight away and was finished before the time I was due to go in. I hate these x-rays as they really hurt. Just as well it is only every three years!
I then went back to the shops and bought some food for lunch as Jane was coming over. Jon was out with someone for lunch today about some training he may be involved with.
I got home and Jane arrived soon after with a yelling Riley as he was very hungry. She seems to be feeding him all the time but I am sure he will soon settle into a routine.
I ate my lunch and then when Jane had finished feeding Riley she ate hers while I nursed him - such a hardship! He looked so cute today in his little Mickey Mouse suit. We put him on the floor on the blanket I knitted and he fell asleep. He didn't sleep long but was quite happy to lie there for a little while.
Jon came home and made a cuppa and then it was time for Jane to get Riley home for his next feed.
Heather came home and could not make her mind up about going for a bike ride as it looked like rain. she decided to go for it but regretted it as she was caught in a very heavy downpour and got wet!
We had dinner and then took Totty out for a walk. Heather had left her bike at her friend's house, not far away, and the friend had brought her home so we collected her bike on the way back.
I heard from Jane that Jason's granddad has been taken into hospital tonight and Jason was there till late. He has not been eating and they have tried to give him protein drinks but he is not taking them so they want him in. All very upsetting for them.
I later had a call from Kirsty to tell me that James' nana who had a stroke on Tuesday is very poorly and it is only a matter of time. It is very sad as she is a lovely lady and we spent a lovely day with her at K&J a couple of weeks ago.
Kirsty also rang to tell me the arrangement for Sunday as we are going to the live auditions for the X Factor and I am very excited!! It is a long show though as it starts at 6.30 and finishes at 11.45. I need to sort out something to wear!
We watched some TV and tomorrow I have my gynae appointment!!
WEATHER
Sunny and warm 24 degrees.
Thursday, 31 July 2014
Wednesday, 30 July 2014
Wednesdday
There is nothing much to write about today as all I did was paint the walls in the living room and I am glad to say they are now finished so just the woodwork to do. We might even have curtains up in the next day or so. I then have the kitchen and family room to do. I have given myself ten days to get it all finished so I will really push on with it all as I have had enough of living in a muddle.
I did manage to get a load of washing out to dry between all the painting and we did take Totty out for a walk this morning but she was tired and I had to pick her up and carry her part of the way back!
Jon had a text from the decorator saying he had changed his mind and would not be giving us any money back. He actually wrote a reply on the website that he would so Jon will now write one saying he hasn't. Jon is going to complain to the people who run the website and see if they can do anything.
Jon spent the whole day in the garden again sorting out the greenhouse and shed and putting the new box together to store the extra chairs and sun loungers in.
I just hope we will eventually have some time to enjoy the garden before the lovely weather ends.
The tree surgeon is coming in tomorrow to cut the big lime tree down and hopefully there are no nests up there. The builder is starting the patio next week so we are not far off now.
I cooked some fresh tuna steaks for dinner and they were very nice. Heather has never had fresh tuna and said it is not as 'fishy' as tinned tuna. Not sure if that was a thumbs up for it or not.
After dinner I still had all my brushes and tray to clean and got them done as I hate to leave them till the next day.
I have a breast scan tomorrow and Jon is off for lunch with someone so I have invited Jane and Riley over so I have a day off tomorrow.
Early night tonight as I am very tired.
WEATHER
Sunny with some cloud 24 degrees
I did manage to get a load of washing out to dry between all the painting and we did take Totty out for a walk this morning but she was tired and I had to pick her up and carry her part of the way back!
Jon had a text from the decorator saying he had changed his mind and would not be giving us any money back. He actually wrote a reply on the website that he would so Jon will now write one saying he hasn't. Jon is going to complain to the people who run the website and see if they can do anything.
Jon spent the whole day in the garden again sorting out the greenhouse and shed and putting the new box together to store the extra chairs and sun loungers in.
I just hope we will eventually have some time to enjoy the garden before the lovely weather ends.
The tree surgeon is coming in tomorrow to cut the big lime tree down and hopefully there are no nests up there. The builder is starting the patio next week so we are not far off now.
I cooked some fresh tuna steaks for dinner and they were very nice. Heather has never had fresh tuna and said it is not as 'fishy' as tinned tuna. Not sure if that was a thumbs up for it or not.
After dinner I still had all my brushes and tray to clean and got them done as I hate to leave them till the next day.
I have a breast scan tomorrow and Jon is off for lunch with someone so I have invited Jane and Riley over so I have a day off tomorrow.
Early night tonight as I am very tired.
WEATHER
Sunny with some cloud 24 degrees
Tuesday, 29 July 2014
Tuesday
I got up and had my shower and was just about to have breakfast and my friend rang and we had a chat which went on longer than I thought and when I looked at my watch I panicked as it was 9.45 and I was due at the osteopath for 10.00 so a quick goodbye, clean my teeth and off I went.
I arrived just on 10.00 and did not speed! I had a half hour session including a very nice back massage - I could have one of these every week if I won the lottery! I don't need to see him again but if I have any problems he said to call him. He also told me to take a tennis ball in the car when we drive to Spain and to put it on my back between the seat and move around and this will give a gentle massage. I should remember to do this.
I stopped off at Tesco on my way home to buy some fish for dinner and then remembered I had chicken that I cooked last night! Fish tomorrow.
When I got home I did a quick tidy round as I had some friends coming to talk about their planned trip to NZ.
I made lunch for Jon and had a quick bite for myself and then Jackie and Angela arrived. I really enjoyed the rest of the afternoon talking about possible places that they should see. It is hard trying to fit our five years into their four weeks. I am sure whatever they decide they will have a really good trip as it is pretty near impossible not to enjoy NZ. They also brought me some lovely flowers and biscuits.
All in all it was a pretty easy day for me but Jon had a busy day in the garden this afternoon doing some heavy pruning and then munching it all up in his new toy. He also, finally, picked up his hearing aids this morning and they seem to be working as he is speaking much quieter to me. He just needs to get used to them now.
Jane rang me to say they had just been to the hospital to have the ECHO for Riley. He still has the hole but they say it shouldn't cause any problems and want to see him again when he is six months old. Jane said he got a bit fidgety while they were doing the ECHO and the doctor put something on his dummy and he immediately calmed down. When she came out she said she should have asked what it was and could she buy some! He now weighs 10lbs 3oz which is very good.
I popped over to see Rene and took her some cake and she seemed much brighter today. I stayed for a little chat and told her I would take her to the cemetery this week if she wanted to as it would have been Fran's birthday on Thursday. She said she will see!
I came back and cooked dinner. Heather came home then went out for a bike ride and then she had dinner with us.
After a bit of TV it was bedtime and another day over.
WEATHER
Sunny with some cloud 26 degrees
I arrived just on 10.00 and did not speed! I had a half hour session including a very nice back massage - I could have one of these every week if I won the lottery! I don't need to see him again but if I have any problems he said to call him. He also told me to take a tennis ball in the car when we drive to Spain and to put it on my back between the seat and move around and this will give a gentle massage. I should remember to do this.
I stopped off at Tesco on my way home to buy some fish for dinner and then remembered I had chicken that I cooked last night! Fish tomorrow.
When I got home I did a quick tidy round as I had some friends coming to talk about their planned trip to NZ.
I made lunch for Jon and had a quick bite for myself and then Jackie and Angela arrived. I really enjoyed the rest of the afternoon talking about possible places that they should see. It is hard trying to fit our five years into their four weeks. I am sure whatever they decide they will have a really good trip as it is pretty near impossible not to enjoy NZ. They also brought me some lovely flowers and biscuits.
All in all it was a pretty easy day for me but Jon had a busy day in the garden this afternoon doing some heavy pruning and then munching it all up in his new toy. He also, finally, picked up his hearing aids this morning and they seem to be working as he is speaking much quieter to me. He just needs to get used to them now.
Jane rang me to say they had just been to the hospital to have the ECHO for Riley. He still has the hole but they say it shouldn't cause any problems and want to see him again when he is six months old. Jane said he got a bit fidgety while they were doing the ECHO and the doctor put something on his dummy and he immediately calmed down. When she came out she said she should have asked what it was and could she buy some! He now weighs 10lbs 3oz which is very good.
I popped over to see Rene and took her some cake and she seemed much brighter today. I stayed for a little chat and told her I would take her to the cemetery this week if she wanted to as it would have been Fran's birthday on Thursday. She said she will see!
I came back and cooked dinner. Heather came home then went out for a bike ride and then she had dinner with us.
After a bit of TV it was bedtime and another day over.
WEATHER
Sunny with some cloud 26 degrees
Monday, 28 July 2014
Monday
We had a bit of thunder last night but not much so it feels much cooler today. However, not far from us they had very heavy thunder and flooding! Jane said they had two storms through the night so I guess we were lucky.
I did my washing this morning and hung it out and we had no rain so it did dry. Jon did some work in the office and I did a bit of ironing.
We left to go and meet up with an old friend we haven't seen for 28 years! She lives in Italy and was widowed four years ago but has met up with her first boyfriend who is a Fellow at Churchill College in Cambridge and as she comes over here to work in Cambridge about once a month they are now an item - long distance.
We met at the college and went in to have lunch there as her friend had a meeting to go to which was a tele conference so he had to be on time. Her 16 year old son was with her and such a good boy and very patient to sit and listen to us oldies chatting about old times.
We left to come home about 4.00 and once home I made a cake for my friends tomorrow and we just had an omelette and salad for dinner. Heather is staying at her friend's house tonight.
We actually managed to sit down and watch a TV programme tonight, the first time I think apart from Corrie!
I seem to be having a bad bout of tummy pain again. It comes every now and again and is like a burning hunger pain even after I have eaten. They did think I might have an ulcer but I didn't have further investigation as it went away and I have been pain free for a long time but now it is back with a vengeance!
I have a Groupon voucher for a cut and style at a salon in Cambridge and have had so much trouble trying to logon to their online booking system. After trying again last night with no success I sent them an email and told them I was losing the will to live and all I wanted was my hair cut and what is wrong with the phone to make an appointment! Well, I had a phone call from the owner this morning and he kindly made my appointment on the phone! Two minutes and it was done! It wasn't just me either as Jane had tried to do it for me and hadn't been able to so it is not 'old woman syndrome'!
WEATHER
Mainly overcast but some sunny spells 24 degrees
I did my washing this morning and hung it out and we had no rain so it did dry. Jon did some work in the office and I did a bit of ironing.
We left to go and meet up with an old friend we haven't seen for 28 years! She lives in Italy and was widowed four years ago but has met up with her first boyfriend who is a Fellow at Churchill College in Cambridge and as she comes over here to work in Cambridge about once a month they are now an item - long distance.
We met at the college and went in to have lunch there as her friend had a meeting to go to which was a tele conference so he had to be on time. Her 16 year old son was with her and such a good boy and very patient to sit and listen to us oldies chatting about old times.
We left to come home about 4.00 and once home I made a cake for my friends tomorrow and we just had an omelette and salad for dinner. Heather is staying at her friend's house tonight.
We actually managed to sit down and watch a TV programme tonight, the first time I think apart from Corrie!
I seem to be having a bad bout of tummy pain again. It comes every now and again and is like a burning hunger pain even after I have eaten. They did think I might have an ulcer but I didn't have further investigation as it went away and I have been pain free for a long time but now it is back with a vengeance!
I have a Groupon voucher for a cut and style at a salon in Cambridge and have had so much trouble trying to logon to their online booking system. After trying again last night with no success I sent them an email and told them I was losing the will to live and all I wanted was my hair cut and what is wrong with the phone to make an appointment! Well, I had a phone call from the owner this morning and he kindly made my appointment on the phone! Two minutes and it was done! It wasn't just me either as Jane had tried to do it for me and hadn't been able to so it is not 'old woman syndrome'!
WEATHER
Mainly overcast but some sunny spells 24 degrees
Sunday, 27 July 2014
Sunday
It was overcast this morning as the forecast said but later the sun came out and it was hot again. I will be sorry to see the sun go when it finally does.
I started with loads of washing this morning before we went out for our coffee. I suppose we should stop this as it costs a lot of money when you add it all up. Jon says he is going to buy a coffee machine and learn to make a flat white!
We got home and I started to tape the floor in the conservatory ready to paint the skirting board and I asked Jon if he could re paint the parts of the wall in the hall and downstairs loo. Really, really annoying as we thought it would all be finished and looking nice by today. Jon got very angry and stressed doing the painting, he doesn't enjoy it at all. Once I had finished the skirting I then put a second coat on the living room door which looked a mess with just the one coat the decorator had put on. Jon was wanting to watch the Grand Prix and said he would finish the hall tomorrow but I said I would finish it or I would have rollers and brushes to wash again tomorrow and once is enough. I started to help and it was soon done and he went to watch the F1. I cleared up the mess!
The decorator was supposed to come round with the money he is returning to us today but he has not arrived. If he does not bring it Jon will write another review on him as he has said in his reply that he will give us something back. Watch this space.
I cooked dinner but I am not feeling very hungry these past few days, stress or heat I am not sure.
I was out getting the washing in and heard a loud crack and saw a huge branch from next doors plum tree falling down. It is a shame it is not the horrible one that drops the horrible little plums on our side!
We watched some TV and then I read the paper online before sending a long overdue email to one of my friends in NZ and for which I feel very guilty but I just don't have much free time. One day!
Off to bed now to read my book which is very sad - The Fault in Our Stars. I am not sure I could go and see the film.
WEATHER
Sunny with some cloud 26 degrees
I started with loads of washing this morning before we went out for our coffee. I suppose we should stop this as it costs a lot of money when you add it all up. Jon says he is going to buy a coffee machine and learn to make a flat white!
We got home and I started to tape the floor in the conservatory ready to paint the skirting board and I asked Jon if he could re paint the parts of the wall in the hall and downstairs loo. Really, really annoying as we thought it would all be finished and looking nice by today. Jon got very angry and stressed doing the painting, he doesn't enjoy it at all. Once I had finished the skirting I then put a second coat on the living room door which looked a mess with just the one coat the decorator had put on. Jon was wanting to watch the Grand Prix and said he would finish the hall tomorrow but I said I would finish it or I would have rollers and brushes to wash again tomorrow and once is enough. I started to help and it was soon done and he went to watch the F1. I cleared up the mess!
The decorator was supposed to come round with the money he is returning to us today but he has not arrived. If he does not bring it Jon will write another review on him as he has said in his reply that he will give us something back. Watch this space.
I cooked dinner but I am not feeling very hungry these past few days, stress or heat I am not sure.
I was out getting the washing in and heard a loud crack and saw a huge branch from next doors plum tree falling down. It is a shame it is not the horrible one that drops the horrible little plums on our side!
We watched some TV and then I read the paper online before sending a long overdue email to one of my friends in NZ and for which I feel very guilty but I just don't have much free time. One day!
Off to bed now to read my book which is very sad - The Fault in Our Stars. I am not sure I could go and see the film.
WEATHER
Sunny with some cloud 26 degrees
Saturday, 26 July 2014
Saturday
Well I did manage to get up early this morning and finally colour my hair so feel better about that.
Jon was cooking bacon for his breakfast and he cooled some for me so a nice weekend treat.
I did a bit of cleaning up the mess from the decorators but there is sooooo much dust.
We went out for a coffee, I enjoy Tesco so much in this hot weather as it is so cool in there. We did a bit of shopping and then went home.
The sky was a beautiful blue and not a cloud in it. We are having such a lovely summer (ours has been going on since December) we will be shocked when it starts to rain!
I got back and did a bit more cleaning as the dust was so thick in the bathroom upstairs and I couldn't leave it as Jane goes up there to change Riley.
Jane, Jason and Riley arrived as I was preparing the ingredients for the paella. He was looking very hot but fast asleep so he must have been fine.
I had to get Jon to move the gas ring to the shade as there is no way I could cook in 30 degrees it was hot enough in the shade.
The paella turned out well and I had not forgotten how to cook it thanks to my good teachers in Spain all those years ago.
We had a lovely lunch but it was so hot and we were very grateful for out huge sunshade which covers the whole table. Riley was a little treasure and Jane was able to eat her lunch before he woke for his feed. He really is a very good baby.
Once lunch was finished we cleared things away and went and sat down at the bottom of the garden where it was a cool 27 degrees but so nice under the trees. Heather left to go to an office summer party with her friend and Kirsty left not long after as she had stayed at a friend's house last night and not slept well so was tired.
We sat on for a while and Jane brought Riley down and after a lovely cuddle he fell asleep and I put him in his pram where he stayed for the next couple of hours.
Jane and Jason left in time to feed the baby who was very hungry but hopefully would fall asleep in the car on the way home.
Jon and I cleared away the rest of the dishes and then sat outside in yet another lovely evening.
After a day off it is back to it tomorrow and more painting!
I am very tired now so off for an early night.
WEATHER
Sunny 30 degrees
Jon was cooking bacon for his breakfast and he cooled some for me so a nice weekend treat.
I did a bit of cleaning up the mess from the decorators but there is sooooo much dust.
We went out for a coffee, I enjoy Tesco so much in this hot weather as it is so cool in there. We did a bit of shopping and then went home.
The sky was a beautiful blue and not a cloud in it. We are having such a lovely summer (ours has been going on since December) we will be shocked when it starts to rain!
I got back and did a bit more cleaning as the dust was so thick in the bathroom upstairs and I couldn't leave it as Jane goes up there to change Riley.
Jane, Jason and Riley arrived as I was preparing the ingredients for the paella. He was looking very hot but fast asleep so he must have been fine.
I had to get Jon to move the gas ring to the shade as there is no way I could cook in 30 degrees it was hot enough in the shade.
The paella turned out well and I had not forgotten how to cook it thanks to my good teachers in Spain all those years ago.
We had a lovely lunch but it was so hot and we were very grateful for out huge sunshade which covers the whole table. Riley was a little treasure and Jane was able to eat her lunch before he woke for his feed. He really is a very good baby.
Once lunch was finished we cleared things away and went and sat down at the bottom of the garden where it was a cool 27 degrees but so nice under the trees. Heather left to go to an office summer party with her friend and Kirsty left not long after as she had stayed at a friend's house last night and not slept well so was tired.
We sat on for a while and Jane brought Riley down and after a lovely cuddle he fell asleep and I put him in his pram where he stayed for the next couple of hours.
Jane and Jason left in time to feed the baby who was very hungry but hopefully would fall asleep in the car on the way home.
Jon and I cleared away the rest of the dishes and then sat outside in yet another lovely evening.
After a day off it is back to it tomorrow and more painting!
I am very tired now so off for an early night.
WEATHER
Sunny 30 degrees
Friday, 25 July 2014
Friday
I did intend to dye my hair this morning but I woke up later than I intended an as I also wanted to paint the conservatory, the conservatory won!
It was soon very warm in the conservatory and I was working as fast as I could but had only completed half of it by coffee time. I decided to get changed and go out for coffee and do my shopping and continue later.
Costa, at Tesco, was a very welcome cool relief and the coffee was very good today.
We then did our shopping and as Tesco did not have any fresh prawns for my paella we had to go to Waitrose who had none either so went to the fish shop who did have some thank goodness and then we went home.
By the time we got back there was not much time to do any painting so after putting the shopping away I made lunch and started painting as soon as I had finished.
It was hot work but I had soon got it finished and looking good.
Jon had had an email asking him to rate the decorators!!!!!! Well, he had to tell the truth as we did not want anyone else to go through what we have. Not long after we had a call from Mark asking why we had put up such a bad review so Jon told him. Meanwhile I had filled in all the holes from the nail gun in the skirting, and all the other cracks around the doors and windows which should have ben filled. We had noticed that some of the walls were satin and others were matt, the radiator pipes had not been painted, the socket in the hall was covered in paint and the wires connecting the phone and modem were covered in paint, the new frame around the door had not been primed and none of the nails had been covered and I could go on with so much more.
Mark said it would have cost more to do the job than he had quoted so Jon asked him why he had quoted the price he had if he could not do it for that as we had not tried to knock him down. He did say it was not their main business which leads me to believe that they do it to fill in with their other work and basically they are cowboys! As their van was not so reliable Jon wanted to ask them if they had used the money to buy new horses!
Jon and Mark finally came to an agreement and he will return some money to us but Jon is not prepared to take down the comments he made about them on the website. I really can't believe we are in this situation. I now have to fill in holes and cracks and re paint what they have not done. As if I didn't have enough painting to do!
I am glad to say the conservatory is now looking very nice and just the skirting to do. My goodness what a hot job on some of the hottest days of the year.
We have out cottage booked for Cornwall with Jane, Jason and Riley for October which will be lovely to see all the family.
Jon tidied up the patio as we have the family coming over for paella tomorrow and I am really looking forward to cooking that shame James will not be home from Korea.
I cooked dinner, fish and posh chips and peas - yummy!
Jon and I then sat outside and enjoyed yet another lovely evening!
WEATHER
Hot and sunny 26 degrees
It was soon very warm in the conservatory and I was working as fast as I could but had only completed half of it by coffee time. I decided to get changed and go out for coffee and do my shopping and continue later.
Costa, at Tesco, was a very welcome cool relief and the coffee was very good today.
We then did our shopping and as Tesco did not have any fresh prawns for my paella we had to go to Waitrose who had none either so went to the fish shop who did have some thank goodness and then we went home.
By the time we got back there was not much time to do any painting so after putting the shopping away I made lunch and started painting as soon as I had finished.
It was hot work but I had soon got it finished and looking good.
Jon had had an email asking him to rate the decorators!!!!!! Well, he had to tell the truth as we did not want anyone else to go through what we have. Not long after we had a call from Mark asking why we had put up such a bad review so Jon told him. Meanwhile I had filled in all the holes from the nail gun in the skirting, and all the other cracks around the doors and windows which should have ben filled. We had noticed that some of the walls were satin and others were matt, the radiator pipes had not been painted, the socket in the hall was covered in paint and the wires connecting the phone and modem were covered in paint, the new frame around the door had not been primed and none of the nails had been covered and I could go on with so much more.
Mark said it would have cost more to do the job than he had quoted so Jon asked him why he had quoted the price he had if he could not do it for that as we had not tried to knock him down. He did say it was not their main business which leads me to believe that they do it to fill in with their other work and basically they are cowboys! As their van was not so reliable Jon wanted to ask them if they had used the money to buy new horses!
Jon and Mark finally came to an agreement and he will return some money to us but Jon is not prepared to take down the comments he made about them on the website. I really can't believe we are in this situation. I now have to fill in holes and cracks and re paint what they have not done. As if I didn't have enough painting to do!
I am glad to say the conservatory is now looking very nice and just the skirting to do. My goodness what a hot job on some of the hottest days of the year.
We have out cottage booked for Cornwall with Jane, Jason and Riley for October which will be lovely to see all the family.
Jon tidied up the patio as we have the family coming over for paella tomorrow and I am really looking forward to cooking that shame James will not be home from Korea.
I cooked dinner, fish and posh chips and peas - yummy!
Jon and I then sat outside and enjoyed yet another lovely evening!
WEATHER
Hot and sunny 26 degrees
Thursday, 24 July 2014
Wednesday and Thursday
WEDNESDAY
My back was really hurting this morning but not where it had been, more my ribs at the back where he had squeezed me, very rough! The original pain feels easier though.
Only Mark arrived to paint the hall this morning, not sure where Bob, dad, is. It is very uncomfortable having them in the house now and I just want it finished but not sure what it will look like. We have had professional decorators in to do the hall three times and every time it has been a disaster!
Jon went into the garden and I started preparing a small, pine chest of drawers for painting to go in the kitchen. I was able to paint outside as it was so warm and I had the sunshade up to keep the sun off. I managed to get two coats of primer/undercoat on and it is looking OK. I also managed to make some date scones.
Mark went off for his lunch and I checked what he was doing. He was sanding down all the filler upstairs and had made a terrible mess which had gone into all the bedrooms and there was a white layer on everything and he hadn't even covered the carpet up!
When he left at the end of the day his van would not start so he had to leave it overnight and I am not sure how he got home but I think he lives in Bury St Edmunds.
I had a look at his work and it was better and the holes and cracks are now filled in. He hasn't said so but the paint he is now using is not satin as he had suggested for a hall and what he put on yesterday. He has changed it to matt finish which I do like better and does not show up the blemishes but he is now using a roller.
Heather came home and went to give Lexi her medicine but she was dead, poor little hamster. Jon will need to bury her in the morning.
We had dinner and watched the opening of the Commenwealth Games which ran over by 45 minutes so it was a late night.
THURSDAY
I really wasn't looking forward to another day of decorators today. Heather had to change her bed as the sheets were all white and as she has black sheets you could see it. It is going to take a lot of cleaning up once they finish.
Both Mark and Bob arrived this morning and tried the van which started no problem.
They started work and Jon went into the garden and buried the hamster and then started on his raised beds again and I started painting the top coat of the chest.
The morning went over quite fast and we stopped for a coffee but thought we had better not go out for one. I must say I have used so much tea making cups of tea for them especially Bob who drinks a lot.
We had lunch and then I made the chocolate cake I have been promising Heather. Jon finally changed the plug to a UK one on my mixer yesterday.
We told the decorators to take the carpet up from the landing, they took the hall carpet up on Tuesday. We would no doubt get paint all over the carpet if they left it. I will need to roll it all properly or it will look awful when it goes back down.
They said they were finished and at first glance it looks OK and they have done a good job and the wood with varnish so we paid them and they left. Well, they would have if the van had started! They did have two cars here today so said they would go and get a tow rope and come back. Not sure when they came back but heard the van start a bit later and when I looked they were driving away.
I checked the work a little closer and could see the new skirting board that the builder put on had not had any of the nail gun holes filled in, they had not filled in the cracks in the door frames, the skirting is a mess and full of bits of carpet under the radiator and they haven't painted the loft cover! Jon said he would call them back but I can't be bothered. They have done the hard work so I will go around and do the things they have missed. So annoying. We certainly would not recommend them to anyone.
I was chatting to my neighbour over the fence and she gave me another dozen eggs. I like this idea. I think I will have to make her a cake as all I usually give her is stale bread for the chucks!
We had dinner and Heather came home and we caught up with a couple of episodes of Corrie and then took the dog out for a walk.
Feeling very tired tonight so it is nice we don't have to rush up in the morning for decorators. I just have a lot of cleaning to do!
WEATHER
Hot and sunny both days 26 degrees
My back was really hurting this morning but not where it had been, more my ribs at the back where he had squeezed me, very rough! The original pain feels easier though.
Only Mark arrived to paint the hall this morning, not sure where Bob, dad, is. It is very uncomfortable having them in the house now and I just want it finished but not sure what it will look like. We have had professional decorators in to do the hall three times and every time it has been a disaster!
Jon went into the garden and I started preparing a small, pine chest of drawers for painting to go in the kitchen. I was able to paint outside as it was so warm and I had the sunshade up to keep the sun off. I managed to get two coats of primer/undercoat on and it is looking OK. I also managed to make some date scones.
Mark went off for his lunch and I checked what he was doing. He was sanding down all the filler upstairs and had made a terrible mess which had gone into all the bedrooms and there was a white layer on everything and he hadn't even covered the carpet up!
When he left at the end of the day his van would not start so he had to leave it overnight and I am not sure how he got home but I think he lives in Bury St Edmunds.
I had a look at his work and it was better and the holes and cracks are now filled in. He hasn't said so but the paint he is now using is not satin as he had suggested for a hall and what he put on yesterday. He has changed it to matt finish which I do like better and does not show up the blemishes but he is now using a roller.
Heather came home and went to give Lexi her medicine but she was dead, poor little hamster. Jon will need to bury her in the morning.
We had dinner and watched the opening of the Commenwealth Games which ran over by 45 minutes so it was a late night.
THURSDAY
I really wasn't looking forward to another day of decorators today. Heather had to change her bed as the sheets were all white and as she has black sheets you could see it. It is going to take a lot of cleaning up once they finish.
Both Mark and Bob arrived this morning and tried the van which started no problem.
They started work and Jon went into the garden and buried the hamster and then started on his raised beds again and I started painting the top coat of the chest.
The morning went over quite fast and we stopped for a coffee but thought we had better not go out for one. I must say I have used so much tea making cups of tea for them especially Bob who drinks a lot.
We had lunch and then I made the chocolate cake I have been promising Heather. Jon finally changed the plug to a UK one on my mixer yesterday.
We told the decorators to take the carpet up from the landing, they took the hall carpet up on Tuesday. We would no doubt get paint all over the carpet if they left it. I will need to roll it all properly or it will look awful when it goes back down.
They said they were finished and at first glance it looks OK and they have done a good job and the wood with varnish so we paid them and they left. Well, they would have if the van had started! They did have two cars here today so said they would go and get a tow rope and come back. Not sure when they came back but heard the van start a bit later and when I looked they were driving away.
I checked the work a little closer and could see the new skirting board that the builder put on had not had any of the nail gun holes filled in, they had not filled in the cracks in the door frames, the skirting is a mess and full of bits of carpet under the radiator and they haven't painted the loft cover! Jon said he would call them back but I can't be bothered. They have done the hard work so I will go around and do the things they have missed. So annoying. We certainly would not recommend them to anyone.
I was chatting to my neighbour over the fence and she gave me another dozen eggs. I like this idea. I think I will have to make her a cake as all I usually give her is stale bread for the chucks!
We had dinner and Heather came home and we caught up with a couple of episodes of Corrie and then took the dog out for a walk.
Feeling very tired tonight so it is nice we don't have to rush up in the morning for decorators. I just have a lot of cleaning to do!
WEATHER
Hot and sunny both days 26 degrees
Tuesday, 22 July 2014
Tuesday
Up early for a shower and hair wash as I had an appointment at the osteopath this morning to see if he can sort my back.
The painter arrived and started on the walls already. I am getting very worried as I don't think he is going to do a good job as he seems to be rushing it and hasn't filled in cracks and things the way I think he should.
The osteopath was very good and through with my medical history. He is a youngish French man and He asked me to lie on the couch and did I mind if he undid my bra! I have never been asked that by a Frenchman before! He was a gentleman and did it up again after my treatment. I did find him a little rough with the manipulation treatment compared to my lovely lady in NZ. The back massage was lovely though. I can't say I have noticed any great relief yet so hopefully it will feel better in the morning.
Jon said he had to go to Ely for his hearing aids so I went to Costa for a coffee and then did some shopping and bought some very nice sea bass for dinner. Heather is out again tonight.
Jon was home when I got back and said he had a phone call to say his hearing aids were not in yet so he is going tomorrow.
I looked at the walls in the hall and was not happy as they are using brushes and paint pads and the finish is very bad. I felt sick to my stomach. We have had such bad luck with our hall this will be the third time we have had decorators in and all three have been bad.
We had some lunch and then I popped over to see Rene and had a chat. She is doing OK but very sad at the loss of her sister.
When I got back Jon said the painters had gone for some lunch - it was 3.00! We had a look at their work and it was awful with so many brush marks and as it is satin they all look awful. They were supposed to fill in area on one wall and in the downstairs toilet where we had taken the rail off but they hadn't and it looked awful. Most of the walls were new plaster so should have been easy. the one wall which was not plastered had not been prepared and still had glue on so the pain was all rough. I could have cried.
They came back from lunch and Jon told them it was not good and they would have to sort it or we would not be paying for such a bad job and if they couldn't sort it they might as well go now. They said they could and got back to work. It now feels very uncomfortable having people in the house who you are not happy with.
I had spent all my time in the kitchen rearranging my cupboards so I kept out of the way and Jon was in the garden..
They started to clear up and asked us to check what they had done. they had put another coat on a small area of wall and said that was what it would all be like when finished. It did look much better and I would be happy. Now they just have to fill all the cracks and spaces. So we will see what happens tomorrow. At least they were smiling when they left.
Jason called round to pick up a table and a couple of chairs that we wanted to get rid of. He wants them for his granddad as he needs a little table in his living room so they have gone to a good home.
I cooked our dinner which was very good, we had it with red peppers and onion. I also cooked some celeriac chips with it and they were very tasty.
Heather came home and we all went out for out walk with Totty.
Lexi is still alive and we managed to get her to take her medicine. It took a long time for her to wake up and Heather thought she was dead but I gave her a good prod and she woke enough to take her medication.
WEATHER
Sunny 25 degrees
The painter arrived and started on the walls already. I am getting very worried as I don't think he is going to do a good job as he seems to be rushing it and hasn't filled in cracks and things the way I think he should.
The osteopath was very good and through with my medical history. He is a youngish French man and He asked me to lie on the couch and did I mind if he undid my bra! I have never been asked that by a Frenchman before! He was a gentleman and did it up again after my treatment. I did find him a little rough with the manipulation treatment compared to my lovely lady in NZ. The back massage was lovely though. I can't say I have noticed any great relief yet so hopefully it will feel better in the morning.
Jon said he had to go to Ely for his hearing aids so I went to Costa for a coffee and then did some shopping and bought some very nice sea bass for dinner. Heather is out again tonight.
Jon was home when I got back and said he had a phone call to say his hearing aids were not in yet so he is going tomorrow.
I looked at the walls in the hall and was not happy as they are using brushes and paint pads and the finish is very bad. I felt sick to my stomach. We have had such bad luck with our hall this will be the third time we have had decorators in and all three have been bad.
We had some lunch and then I popped over to see Rene and had a chat. She is doing OK but very sad at the loss of her sister.
When I got back Jon said the painters had gone for some lunch - it was 3.00! We had a look at their work and it was awful with so many brush marks and as it is satin they all look awful. They were supposed to fill in area on one wall and in the downstairs toilet where we had taken the rail off but they hadn't and it looked awful. Most of the walls were new plaster so should have been easy. the one wall which was not plastered had not been prepared and still had glue on so the pain was all rough. I could have cried.
They came back from lunch and Jon told them it was not good and they would have to sort it or we would not be paying for such a bad job and if they couldn't sort it they might as well go now. They said they could and got back to work. It now feels very uncomfortable having people in the house who you are not happy with.
I had spent all my time in the kitchen rearranging my cupboards so I kept out of the way and Jon was in the garden..
They started to clear up and asked us to check what they had done. they had put another coat on a small area of wall and said that was what it would all be like when finished. It did look much better and I would be happy. Now they just have to fill all the cracks and spaces. So we will see what happens tomorrow. At least they were smiling when they left.
Jason called round to pick up a table and a couple of chairs that we wanted to get rid of. He wants them for his granddad as he needs a little table in his living room so they have gone to a good home.
I cooked our dinner which was very good, we had it with red peppers and onion. I also cooked some celeriac chips with it and they were very tasty.
Heather came home and we all went out for out walk with Totty.
Lexi is still alive and we managed to get her to take her medicine. It took a long time for her to wake up and Heather thought she was dead but I gave her a good prod and she woke enough to take her medication.
WEATHER
Sunny 25 degrees
Monday, 21 July 2014
Monday
No thunder and much cooler last night.
I was up and dressed and had done a bit of housework by the time the painter arrived. He got stuck in and I left him to it. I rang to make an appointment for the hamster for 14.40.
I rang the British Heart Foundation to ask them if they would come for the bed and they told me if it was made in NZ (well it was probably made in China) they could not accept it as it would not have the British standard fire safety label on!
I decided to advertise it on Newmarket Selling Places for free and got an answer in a few minutes of a lady who wanted it but needed to sort transport. Another lady who had enquired last week when I was selling it also replied and funnily enough she now wanted it!!! I told her it was to go to the first lady but if she didn't get back to me she could have it. Fortunately she did as I would have been annoyed if the second lady got it as she did mess me about last week.
I spent the rest of the morning doing my ironing as there was not much else I could do. I did regret it later as my back is really not getting any better even using Voltarol gel and taking painkillers..
I took Lexi to the vet and she did smell a lot. But when we got there she was much more lively and was running around the table. They gave me some antibiotics for seven days but said if she looks like she is suffering then to take her and they will euthanize her.
I got home and started sorting all my cookery books as Jon has put some new shelves up in the utility. I have now emptied all the boxes. I just have one full of my plastic food containers which I will start filling with my cooking ingredients. I have so many as I had everything in plastic boxes to keep the mouse out!
We had the curry for dinner tonight so nice and easy just rice to prepare. The decorator left but he is a bit messy but did say he would bring a vacuum cleaner with him tomorrow. I hope he makes a good job of it as all the people we have had have been good and I don't ant any bad feelings.
The young lady came to collect the bed with her mum and step dad, I think. She was really happy with the bed and she looked like she didn't have much so it has gone to a good home.
After dinner Jon, Heather and I went out to walk the dog. I then ironed my sheets and made the bed.
The house is looking better now and once the hall is finished I hope my back will be better and then I can get on with the rest of it. It would be nice to have the curtains up again.
WEATHER
Warm and humid 24c
I was up and dressed and had done a bit of housework by the time the painter arrived. He got stuck in and I left him to it. I rang to make an appointment for the hamster for 14.40.
I rang the British Heart Foundation to ask them if they would come for the bed and they told me if it was made in NZ (well it was probably made in China) they could not accept it as it would not have the British standard fire safety label on!
I decided to advertise it on Newmarket Selling Places for free and got an answer in a few minutes of a lady who wanted it but needed to sort transport. Another lady who had enquired last week when I was selling it also replied and funnily enough she now wanted it!!! I told her it was to go to the first lady but if she didn't get back to me she could have it. Fortunately she did as I would have been annoyed if the second lady got it as she did mess me about last week.
I spent the rest of the morning doing my ironing as there was not much else I could do. I did regret it later as my back is really not getting any better even using Voltarol gel and taking painkillers..
I took Lexi to the vet and she did smell a lot. But when we got there she was much more lively and was running around the table. They gave me some antibiotics for seven days but said if she looks like she is suffering then to take her and they will euthanize her.
I got home and started sorting all my cookery books as Jon has put some new shelves up in the utility. I have now emptied all the boxes. I just have one full of my plastic food containers which I will start filling with my cooking ingredients. I have so many as I had everything in plastic boxes to keep the mouse out!
We had the curry for dinner tonight so nice and easy just rice to prepare. The decorator left but he is a bit messy but did say he would bring a vacuum cleaner with him tomorrow. I hope he makes a good job of it as all the people we have had have been good and I don't ant any bad feelings.
The young lady came to collect the bed with her mum and step dad, I think. She was really happy with the bed and she looked like she didn't have much so it has gone to a good home.
After dinner Jon, Heather and I went out to walk the dog. I then ironed my sheets and made the bed.
The house is looking better now and once the hall is finished I hope my back will be better and then I can get on with the rest of it. It would be nice to have the curtains up again.
WEATHER
Warm and humid 24c
Sunday, 20 July 2014
Friday, Saturday, Sunday.
My back was really sore this morning but we had decided to go out and being stubborn I still decided to go!
Flatford Mill is only about an hour's drive but the pain I felt was so bad and I wished I had stayed home and at one point thought of asking Jon to turn back but as we were on the A14 it is a straight road so we went on.
We stopped for a coffee and I managed to get out of the car and into Starbucks but it was extremely painful and the coffee was not very good so I wish I had stayed in the car. It is the lifting of my left leg into the car that is the most painful but once I am on my feet it is not as bad.
Ten minutes later and we arrived at Flatford Mill. I have always wanted to visit this place as I had a copy of one of John Constable's paintings of the mill and it is every bit as beautiful.
The site is run by the National Trust and Kirsty and James had said they would buy us a subscription for out Christmas present so we joined and got our car stickers and welcome pack and Kirsty will pay us later.
We had a very slow walk down to the RSPB garden which has only been there for about three years and it is very nice with lots of birds and butterflies.
We then had a walk along the river and took some photos of the mill. I will need to come again when my back is OK as there are some very nice walks to go on.
We went into the tea shop and had lunch which was OK but next time I think we will bring a picnic.
We then tried an ice cream which was supposed to be 'prize winning' Hmm not very good at all.
I had then had enough so we got in the car to drive home. We went across country and passed through some lovely villages with lots of lovely country pubs and lots of thatched cottages. Took more than an hour but better than the main road.
We stopped in Waitrose to buy some fish for dinner and then went home for a cuppa. Heather has gone to London to stay with her friend.
Kirsty rang to say she was coming over to collect something and so when she arrived I asked her if she wanted to stay for dinner which she did and as it was so hot we ate outside and listened to the Beachboys who were playing at the racecourse.
Kirsty left and it started to rain a little and we could hear thunder as had been forecast.
We went to bed and I was woken at 3.30 by thunder and the dog growling so I got up to let her out and just as I was about to open the door we had a bug flash of lightening and thunder. I didn't want her to start running round the garden barking as with my bad back there was no way I could catch her so I put her lead on and let her out of the front door to do her wee and fortunately no thunder while she was out.
We got back to bed and the thunder rumbled around and was loud and then passed over.
My back was no better in the morning so I think I am going to have to go to see an osteopath next week.
We went out for a coffee and then did some shopping as Jane and Jason, Kirsty and James are all coming for a bbq. There was another thunderstorm while we were out and it is very humid.
We got home and I was putting the shopping away and Jane rang to say they were in town and would be round shortly. I quickly did my housework and got ready for them.
Jon was doing some work in the garden and once Jane arrived we just sat and chatted and I held Riley as I couldn't do much else with a bad back!
I rang my friend Mary to ask if she wanted to come round as she has been trying to get over to see Jane. She came round and was happy to do so as it got her out of doing her ironing!
It was gone 6.00 and Kirsty and James said they were on their way so Jon started to cook which was a bit silly really as it was steak - a 2lbs piece - which doesn't take long to cook. They were a bit late and I did ask them to get me some balsamic vinegar on the way so of course by the time they got here the steak was rather overcooked. I think Jon needs to stress less when he cooks a bbq as it is supposed to be a relaxed way of eating!!
We did have a lovely evening and were able to sit outside and everyone was there till gone 11.00 and Riley was a little angel.
Another thunderstorm and up again with the dog and she took a long time to settle as it was a bigger storm so I was tired on Sunday morning.
I cooked Jon a proper breakfast and we ate outside. I am really loving the hot weather. Just a shame by back is no better I have so much decorating to do but I can't even think about it at the moment.
We didn't go out for a coffee as I was sorting stuff out and Jon was doing things in the office so we had a day at home 'sorting'.
I spent most of my time sorting out my clothes at last and getting the small bedroom straight so I can use it as a dressing room. The hamster lives in this room, for the moment, and she was out of her bed and looking very sick and could not walk. she was trying to drink but couldn't seem to get to her water bottle so I squeezed the bottle and she had a good drink from the floor of the cage. I know she is old and she could die but seeing her suffering was horrible. She eventually went back to her bed and I got my room finished.
I had taken a small chicken breast out of the freezer for our dinner and then remembered I had lamb steaks which I had bought to do a korma recipe with so had to make that as well or the lamb would be off by Monday. So I was rushing around to get it done.
Heather came home from Jane's and I told her Lexi was not well and we checked on her and I put a small dish of water in the cage so she can drink it easier. We'll see how she is in the morning and I will take her to the vet.
WEATHER
Hot and sunny, thunderstorms and 32c
Flatford Mill is only about an hour's drive but the pain I felt was so bad and I wished I had stayed home and at one point thought of asking Jon to turn back but as we were on the A14 it is a straight road so we went on.
We stopped for a coffee and I managed to get out of the car and into Starbucks but it was extremely painful and the coffee was not very good so I wish I had stayed in the car. It is the lifting of my left leg into the car that is the most painful but once I am on my feet it is not as bad.
Ten minutes later and we arrived at Flatford Mill. I have always wanted to visit this place as I had a copy of one of John Constable's paintings of the mill and it is every bit as beautiful.
The site is run by the National Trust and Kirsty and James had said they would buy us a subscription for out Christmas present so we joined and got our car stickers and welcome pack and Kirsty will pay us later.
We had a very slow walk down to the RSPB garden which has only been there for about three years and it is very nice with lots of birds and butterflies.
We then had a walk along the river and took some photos of the mill. I will need to come again when my back is OK as there are some very nice walks to go on.
We went into the tea shop and had lunch which was OK but next time I think we will bring a picnic.
We then tried an ice cream which was supposed to be 'prize winning' Hmm not very good at all.
I had then had enough so we got in the car to drive home. We went across country and passed through some lovely villages with lots of lovely country pubs and lots of thatched cottages. Took more than an hour but better than the main road.
We stopped in Waitrose to buy some fish for dinner and then went home for a cuppa. Heather has gone to London to stay with her friend.
Kirsty rang to say she was coming over to collect something and so when she arrived I asked her if she wanted to stay for dinner which she did and as it was so hot we ate outside and listened to the Beachboys who were playing at the racecourse.
Kirsty left and it started to rain a little and we could hear thunder as had been forecast.
We went to bed and I was woken at 3.30 by thunder and the dog growling so I got up to let her out and just as I was about to open the door we had a bug flash of lightening and thunder. I didn't want her to start running round the garden barking as with my bad back there was no way I could catch her so I put her lead on and let her out of the front door to do her wee and fortunately no thunder while she was out.
We got back to bed and the thunder rumbled around and was loud and then passed over.
My back was no better in the morning so I think I am going to have to go to see an osteopath next week.
We went out for a coffee and then did some shopping as Jane and Jason, Kirsty and James are all coming for a bbq. There was another thunderstorm while we were out and it is very humid.
We got home and I was putting the shopping away and Jane rang to say they were in town and would be round shortly. I quickly did my housework and got ready for them.
Jon was doing some work in the garden and once Jane arrived we just sat and chatted and I held Riley as I couldn't do much else with a bad back!
I rang my friend Mary to ask if she wanted to come round as she has been trying to get over to see Jane. She came round and was happy to do so as it got her out of doing her ironing!
It was gone 6.00 and Kirsty and James said they were on their way so Jon started to cook which was a bit silly really as it was steak - a 2lbs piece - which doesn't take long to cook. They were a bit late and I did ask them to get me some balsamic vinegar on the way so of course by the time they got here the steak was rather overcooked. I think Jon needs to stress less when he cooks a bbq as it is supposed to be a relaxed way of eating!!
We did have a lovely evening and were able to sit outside and everyone was there till gone 11.00 and Riley was a little angel.
Another thunderstorm and up again with the dog and she took a long time to settle as it was a bigger storm so I was tired on Sunday morning.
I cooked Jon a proper breakfast and we ate outside. I am really loving the hot weather. Just a shame by back is no better I have so much decorating to do but I can't even think about it at the moment.
We didn't go out for a coffee as I was sorting stuff out and Jon was doing things in the office so we had a day at home 'sorting'.
I spent most of my time sorting out my clothes at last and getting the small bedroom straight so I can use it as a dressing room. The hamster lives in this room, for the moment, and she was out of her bed and looking very sick and could not walk. she was trying to drink but couldn't seem to get to her water bottle so I squeezed the bottle and she had a good drink from the floor of the cage. I know she is old and she could die but seeing her suffering was horrible. She eventually went back to her bed and I got my room finished.
I had taken a small chicken breast out of the freezer for our dinner and then remembered I had lamb steaks which I had bought to do a korma recipe with so had to make that as well or the lamb would be off by Monday. So I was rushing around to get it done.
Heather came home from Jane's and I told her Lexi was not well and we checked on her and I put a small dish of water in the cage so she can drink it easier. We'll see how she is in the morning and I will take her to the vet.
WEATHER
Hot and sunny, thunderstorms and 32c
Thursday, 17 July 2014
Thursday
I had a very uncomfortable night last night and my back is really painful this morning. I have been taking pain killers but it makes no difference at all.
I didn't do much this morning apart from sort some clothes out. Unfortunately, one of the rails we bought which had Jon's clothes on, collapsed and fell onto one of out bedside lamps which were waiting to have the plugs changed. It is really annoying as we won't be able to replace the shade over here.
I went across to see how Rene was and check she didn't need anything doing for the refreshments she was putting on after the funeral. When I got there she was struggling to take her vest off as it was too warm. Poor old dear, I really don't know how she manages to dress herself sometimes. She was very emotional and today is going to be very hard for her. Her nephew arrived with his sister that I didn't know he had and two grown up nephews. Not sure where all this family have been over the last four weeks! Her niece and partner arrived and they were not very pleasant either.
I got ready and went out to the church where Fran's funeral was being held. It was very painful to drive and I should have asked Edna for a lift.
The little church was very full with people standing at the back. How lovely to get to the age of 94 and have so many people at your funeral. It was a lovely service which Fran had arranged herself before she died. Her goddaughter sang a beautiful opera song in French and it was wonderful. Fran would have enjoyed it all. Rene was in pieces poor old dear.
I didn't go up to the cemetery or across to the house later. I just went home for lunch.
I couldn't do much for the rest of the day and sat on the chair or on the sofa trying to get comfortable. I did manage to watch seven episodes of Neighbours.
Jon was working in the garden and one of the chickens came over from next-door. He was digging and the chicken was having a lovely meal with all the insects and worms he was digging up. We had to keep Totty in as I am not sure what she would do. I contacted Sharon and she said if I could catch it to throw it back over but with my bad back I wouldn't even try!
Jon came indoors as it was much too hot for gardening.
Sharon's daughter came in about 6.00 to catch the chicken which was actually quite easy as it is very tame. I think it might be back as it had such a good feed.
Heather was out for dinner tonight so it was just Jon and I and then we watched a bit of TV. Jane rang to say all was OK with her but that Riley had been unsettled all day but it could be the heat. I suggested she put him in the pram and go for a walk which she said she might do but tomorrow he has his hospital appointment.
Rene's front door was still open at 9.30 so I popped over to make sure she was OK. She said she was hot and needed the breeze. I hope she doesn't forget and leave it open all night. Such a worry.
I hope I can get comfortable in bed tonight?
WEATHER
Hot and sunny 26 degrees
I didn't do much this morning apart from sort some clothes out. Unfortunately, one of the rails we bought which had Jon's clothes on, collapsed and fell onto one of out bedside lamps which were waiting to have the plugs changed. It is really annoying as we won't be able to replace the shade over here.
I went across to see how Rene was and check she didn't need anything doing for the refreshments she was putting on after the funeral. When I got there she was struggling to take her vest off as it was too warm. Poor old dear, I really don't know how she manages to dress herself sometimes. She was very emotional and today is going to be very hard for her. Her nephew arrived with his sister that I didn't know he had and two grown up nephews. Not sure where all this family have been over the last four weeks! Her niece and partner arrived and they were not very pleasant either.
I got ready and went out to the church where Fran's funeral was being held. It was very painful to drive and I should have asked Edna for a lift.
The little church was very full with people standing at the back. How lovely to get to the age of 94 and have so many people at your funeral. It was a lovely service which Fran had arranged herself before she died. Her goddaughter sang a beautiful opera song in French and it was wonderful. Fran would have enjoyed it all. Rene was in pieces poor old dear.
I didn't go up to the cemetery or across to the house later. I just went home for lunch.
I couldn't do much for the rest of the day and sat on the chair or on the sofa trying to get comfortable. I did manage to watch seven episodes of Neighbours.
Jon was working in the garden and one of the chickens came over from next-door. He was digging and the chicken was having a lovely meal with all the insects and worms he was digging up. We had to keep Totty in as I am not sure what she would do. I contacted Sharon and she said if I could catch it to throw it back over but with my bad back I wouldn't even try!
Jon came indoors as it was much too hot for gardening.
Sharon's daughter came in about 6.00 to catch the chicken which was actually quite easy as it is very tame. I think it might be back as it had such a good feed.
Heather was out for dinner tonight so it was just Jon and I and then we watched a bit of TV. Jane rang to say all was OK with her but that Riley had been unsettled all day but it could be the heat. I suggested she put him in the pram and go for a walk which she said she might do but tomorrow he has his hospital appointment.
Rene's front door was still open at 9.30 so I popped over to make sure she was OK. She said she was hot and needed the breeze. I hope she doesn't forget and leave it open all night. Such a worry.
I hope I can get comfortable in bed tonight?
WEATHER
Hot and sunny 26 degrees
Wednesday, 16 July 2014
A day off!
I had an lazy day today with no work.
We manage to get a decorator to come and look at the hall stairs and landing and he said if we are ready to go he can come in next week if not it will be the end of August - we are ready to go!
I had a bit of a twinge in my back yesterday not sure what I did and this morning it was still hurting but I decided to go and do my aqua class in the hope that it would loosen it up.
The class was really good and we did some really good floating exercises with dumbbells!
After the class I picked up some coffees for Jon and I and came home. We sat out on the patio in the lovely sunshine to drink them.
I had a shower and got ready to go and meet Sonia for lunch. My back was beginning to hurt a lot and pretty difficult when reversing the car.
We had a nice lunch and a chat but by the end of the hour I was pretty uncomfortable and was glad to get up.
I did a bit of shopping and went to the post office and met four of the ladies I used to work with at the surgery! It took a long time to get back to the car.
I had a boot full of clothes to take to the charity shop so drove round to them. I also had lots of old towels, tea towels and bed sheets to get rid of and they said they would take them all as, if they were no good, they have a rag bag for which they get money so I left the lot there.
I got home and popped over to see how Rene's foot was and the lady who she allows to do a few jobs for her was just arriving. I said I didn't like the look of her foot and she agreed it should be seen so she called the surgery and took her down to see the nurse. I didn't stay long as my back was by now really painful.
I didn't intend to do much an was about to sit down and ring Jane to see how her first day on her own was going when she turned up at the door. She said Riley had been grizzling so she took him in the car to buy nappies and he had fallen asleep. We say chatting and she said she had been doing OK but hadn't managed to eat her lunch. She needs some practice to use just one hand!
He looked all scrunched up in his car seat so she took him out and gave him to me and he just slept in my arms, it was lovely. He does pull some very funny faces.
She left to go home as Jason would be wondering where she was and would want to see his baby after being away from him all day.
I put our dinner in the oven and Sharon, my neighbour came round to say two of her chickens were in our garden and could she get them. Just as well Totty didn't spot them first!
Heather came home and we had dinner and then watched some TV. No walk tonight as I don't think I could.
I hope it is better tomorrow as it is Fran's funeral. I dread to think what Rene will be like.
We manage to get a decorator to come and look at the hall stairs and landing and he said if we are ready to go he can come in next week if not it will be the end of August - we are ready to go!
I had a bit of a twinge in my back yesterday not sure what I did and this morning it was still hurting but I decided to go and do my aqua class in the hope that it would loosen it up.
The class was really good and we did some really good floating exercises with dumbbells!
After the class I picked up some coffees for Jon and I and came home. We sat out on the patio in the lovely sunshine to drink them.
I had a shower and got ready to go and meet Sonia for lunch. My back was beginning to hurt a lot and pretty difficult when reversing the car.
We had a nice lunch and a chat but by the end of the hour I was pretty uncomfortable and was glad to get up.
I did a bit of shopping and went to the post office and met four of the ladies I used to work with at the surgery! It took a long time to get back to the car.
I had a boot full of clothes to take to the charity shop so drove round to them. I also had lots of old towels, tea towels and bed sheets to get rid of and they said they would take them all as, if they were no good, they have a rag bag for which they get money so I left the lot there.
I got home and popped over to see how Rene's foot was and the lady who she allows to do a few jobs for her was just arriving. I said I didn't like the look of her foot and she agreed it should be seen so she called the surgery and took her down to see the nurse. I didn't stay long as my back was by now really painful.
I didn't intend to do much an was about to sit down and ring Jane to see how her first day on her own was going when she turned up at the door. She said Riley had been grizzling so she took him in the car to buy nappies and he had fallen asleep. We say chatting and she said she had been doing OK but hadn't managed to eat her lunch. She needs some practice to use just one hand!
He looked all scrunched up in his car seat so she took him out and gave him to me and he just slept in my arms, it was lovely. He does pull some very funny faces.
She left to go home as Jason would be wondering where she was and would want to see his baby after being away from him all day.
I put our dinner in the oven and Sharon, my neighbour came round to say two of her chickens were in our garden and could she get them. Just as well Totty didn't spot them first!
Heather came home and we had dinner and then watched some TV. No walk tonight as I don't think I could.
I hope it is better tomorrow as it is Fran's funeral. I dread to think what Rene will be like.
Tuesday, 15 July 2014
Tuesday
The early night was worth it as I did get up earlier today.
I spent the morning cleaning bathrooms and shower doors and nooks and crannies that haven't been cleaned for a while so they are all sparkling again.
Jon left to go to the station and caught the train from Newmarket to Cambridge and then on to London.
We had two men come to give quotes for a new garage door and the window cleaner came.
I thought I was going to get so much done but not sure where the time went and before I knew it was lunchtime.
After lunch I did more clothes sorting and then made my shopping list according to my menus and I must try and stick to it and stop going to the shops so often.
On my way I stopped in to see Rene and she showed me a very nasty wound on the side of her foot by her big toe. She is not sure how she did it and says it must be from the fall but I think someone would have noticed it before now if it was. She told me the doctor is coming to see her on Friday and I said I think it might need to be seen before that and I would take her to the surgery but she said no. I came home and got some dressings to put on it and she said it felt better as it wasn't rubbing on her slipper. I hope it is not going to get infected but it did look a bit nasty. Stubborn lady.
I went and did my shopping and stuck to my list. It helped that I was in a hurry!
Back home I made a beef ragu to have tonight with pasta.
I was just having a cuppa when Jon came home and said he had had a good meeting.
I brought my washing in and Heather came home from work while I was ironing and then we had dinner and watched some TV.
We all then went out for our walk with Totty.
Heather is still not feeling well and her boss seems to be coming down with the same thing so maybe it is a virus so she has gone to bed early again.
I carried on with my ironing and watched the TV.
Jon made me a coffee and my back told me I had done enough today so I sat down.
Riley had his hearing test today and all is well. He still has one ear blocked but they say it will clear.
WEATHER
Cloudy with sunny spells 23 degrees
I spent the morning cleaning bathrooms and shower doors and nooks and crannies that haven't been cleaned for a while so they are all sparkling again.
Jon left to go to the station and caught the train from Newmarket to Cambridge and then on to London.
We had two men come to give quotes for a new garage door and the window cleaner came.
I thought I was going to get so much done but not sure where the time went and before I knew it was lunchtime.
After lunch I did more clothes sorting and then made my shopping list according to my menus and I must try and stick to it and stop going to the shops so often.
On my way I stopped in to see Rene and she showed me a very nasty wound on the side of her foot by her big toe. She is not sure how she did it and says it must be from the fall but I think someone would have noticed it before now if it was. She told me the doctor is coming to see her on Friday and I said I think it might need to be seen before that and I would take her to the surgery but she said no. I came home and got some dressings to put on it and she said it felt better as it wasn't rubbing on her slipper. I hope it is not going to get infected but it did look a bit nasty. Stubborn lady.
I went and did my shopping and stuck to my list. It helped that I was in a hurry!
Back home I made a beef ragu to have tonight with pasta.
I was just having a cuppa when Jon came home and said he had had a good meeting.
I brought my washing in and Heather came home from work while I was ironing and then we had dinner and watched some TV.
We all then went out for our walk with Totty.
Heather is still not feeling well and her boss seems to be coming down with the same thing so maybe it is a virus so she has gone to bed early again.
I carried on with my ironing and watched the TV.
Jon made me a coffee and my back told me I had done enough today so I sat down.
Riley had his hearing test today and all is well. He still has one ear blocked but they say it will clear.
WEATHER
Cloudy with sunny spells 23 degrees
Monday, 14 July 2014
Saturday, Sunday and Monday
Another very busy few days!
Saturday Jon and I spent most of the day sorting out the clothes boxes that I had unpacked. It is official, I have too many clothes and Jon has too many shirts!
We really don't have enough space to put them all so I am going to have a sort through, I did throw out a lot before we left NZ, and get rid of some.
We went out for a coffee and bought a few things in Tesco but Heather is out tonight and I am sure I have something in the freezer that we can eat.
We were fighting a losing battle trying to hang clothes and so in the end we went into Newmarket and bought another clothes rail, a shoe rack and a cloth wardrobe to put in the garage and Jon can hang his winter things in there.
We managed to get upstairs sorted out so that we could get into bed and the rest we left, enough for one day.
Kirsty asked if she can come over for dinner tomorrow as James is away so it will be nice to catch up with her.
Sunday
We went out to the Pantry for breakfast this morning with Heather and then to M&S as Heather was cooking burgers for Jane and Jason and needed some buns.
It turned into quite a big shop as we then rang J&J to ask if they wanted to come over for a bbq and they said they did so we ended up buying a load of stuff for a bbq.
Back home and Jon and I started more sorting but before I did I took lots of things up to the loft to make more space. I love our loft ladder and don't know how I would have managed without it. It is so hot in the loft though and I was sweating by the time I had finished. It really needs a good sort out up there, one day the lot will fall through the ceiling!
I had a chat with Sharon over the fence and she gave me another half a dozen eggs from her chucks.
My cousin's daughter, Louise, came in the afternoon with her husband and two children, Callum two and a half and Evie, just one. Lovely children but full of lifewhich sent Jon into shock! Callum played tug of war with Totty and a fluffy bear and she was totally worn out by the end of it. Louise brought a Jungle Gym for Riley which is very nice and in lovely condition.
They left and then we started to get the bbq ready. Jane had had visitors and Riley was having a feed so they were late getting her and they told us to start without them which we did but they weren't too much longer.
Riley woke and was getting grumpy so she made a bottle for him and I gave it to him. A new experience for me as I haven't bottle fed a baby for years and years. He took it but did throw a lot back.
We watched the football and Riley was very unsettled so I kindly offered to take him and let Jason watch the TV - purely selfish on my part! He did settle in my arms and fell asleep.
Kirsty left to watch the end of the football at home.
Jane and Jason got ready to leave and put Riley into his chair and he woke up and was very loud till he got into the car.
I tidied up and then went to bed very tired.
Monday.
I really need to get an early night as I just can't wake up in the mornings these days.
Heather didn't go to work as she has sinusitis so stayed in bed pretty much all day and did look very washed out this evening.
I went to an aqua class at the sports centre, the first one in about four weeks. It was a really good class and the teacher is very good. It makes me feel so good after I have done a class. I really must keep them up now the builders have finished.
Jon spent the morning in the office doing paperwork and is going to London tomorrow to meet up with an Australian man who is over. I think he is the CEO of the company Jon did the work for in France. I will have a day to myself tomorrow and maybe catch up with some of the 40+ Neighbours I have to watch.
I did some washing and sorted some clothes out and it is looking marginally better upstairs.
The lady that wanted to buy our boxes said she could collect them today from Jane's house so Jon and I loaded them all into our car, and it was full with the seats down, and drove to Soham. She was there waiting and she told me she had a Ford Focus and I realy didn't think we would get all the boxes and the paper in. She brought her car to the drive and we, Jon, Jason and I transferred them all to her car. She said it is the last time she will do an errand for her husband as he had not told her there were so many.
We stayed a little while with Jane who said Riley had been unsettled since 11.00. she was feeding him while we were there and he did finally settle and sleep.
He has lots of appointments coming up, hearing tomorrow, his tongue tie is going to be done on Friday, poor little man. They need to make sure he is hungry as he will need to feed as soon as it is done to see how he manages. I am glad I am not going to see it. He also has an appointment for an echocardiogram on 29 July. The hospital had said three months so not sure why it is through so soon. He also has his appointment for his vaccinations the week before we go on holiday. He needs his own diary!
We got back and had a cuppa and Jon finished sorting the shed out and the greenhouse and then cut the grass which is looking much better now.
We had dinner and then took Totty out for a walk.
I might just make it to bed for 11.00 tonight!
WEATHER
Mostly fine over the weekend and very warm. Thunderstorm on Saturday evening. Up in the mid 20s
Saturday Jon and I spent most of the day sorting out the clothes boxes that I had unpacked. It is official, I have too many clothes and Jon has too many shirts!
We really don't have enough space to put them all so I am going to have a sort through, I did throw out a lot before we left NZ, and get rid of some.
We went out for a coffee and bought a few things in Tesco but Heather is out tonight and I am sure I have something in the freezer that we can eat.
We were fighting a losing battle trying to hang clothes and so in the end we went into Newmarket and bought another clothes rail, a shoe rack and a cloth wardrobe to put in the garage and Jon can hang his winter things in there.
We managed to get upstairs sorted out so that we could get into bed and the rest we left, enough for one day.
Kirsty asked if she can come over for dinner tomorrow as James is away so it will be nice to catch up with her.
Sunday
We went out to the Pantry for breakfast this morning with Heather and then to M&S as Heather was cooking burgers for Jane and Jason and needed some buns.
It turned into quite a big shop as we then rang J&J to ask if they wanted to come over for a bbq and they said they did so we ended up buying a load of stuff for a bbq.
Back home and Jon and I started more sorting but before I did I took lots of things up to the loft to make more space. I love our loft ladder and don't know how I would have managed without it. It is so hot in the loft though and I was sweating by the time I had finished. It really needs a good sort out up there, one day the lot will fall through the ceiling!
I had a chat with Sharon over the fence and she gave me another half a dozen eggs from her chucks.
My cousin's daughter, Louise, came in the afternoon with her husband and two children, Callum two and a half and Evie, just one. Lovely children but full of lifewhich sent Jon into shock! Callum played tug of war with Totty and a fluffy bear and she was totally worn out by the end of it. Louise brought a Jungle Gym for Riley which is very nice and in lovely condition.
They left and then we started to get the bbq ready. Jane had had visitors and Riley was having a feed so they were late getting her and they told us to start without them which we did but they weren't too much longer.
Riley woke and was getting grumpy so she made a bottle for him and I gave it to him. A new experience for me as I haven't bottle fed a baby for years and years. He took it but did throw a lot back.
We watched the football and Riley was very unsettled so I kindly offered to take him and let Jason watch the TV - purely selfish on my part! He did settle in my arms and fell asleep.
Kirsty left to watch the end of the football at home.
Jane and Jason got ready to leave and put Riley into his chair and he woke up and was very loud till he got into the car.
I tidied up and then went to bed very tired.
Monday.
I really need to get an early night as I just can't wake up in the mornings these days.
Heather didn't go to work as she has sinusitis so stayed in bed pretty much all day and did look very washed out this evening.
I went to an aqua class at the sports centre, the first one in about four weeks. It was a really good class and the teacher is very good. It makes me feel so good after I have done a class. I really must keep them up now the builders have finished.
Jon spent the morning in the office doing paperwork and is going to London tomorrow to meet up with an Australian man who is over. I think he is the CEO of the company Jon did the work for in France. I will have a day to myself tomorrow and maybe catch up with some of the 40+ Neighbours I have to watch.
I did some washing and sorted some clothes out and it is looking marginally better upstairs.
The lady that wanted to buy our boxes said she could collect them today from Jane's house so Jon and I loaded them all into our car, and it was full with the seats down, and drove to Soham. She was there waiting and she told me she had a Ford Focus and I realy didn't think we would get all the boxes and the paper in. She brought her car to the drive and we, Jon, Jason and I transferred them all to her car. She said it is the last time she will do an errand for her husband as he had not told her there were so many.
We stayed a little while with Jane who said Riley had been unsettled since 11.00. she was feeding him while we were there and he did finally settle and sleep.
He has lots of appointments coming up, hearing tomorrow, his tongue tie is going to be done on Friday, poor little man. They need to make sure he is hungry as he will need to feed as soon as it is done to see how he manages. I am glad I am not going to see it. He also has an appointment for an echocardiogram on 29 July. The hospital had said three months so not sure why it is through so soon. He also has his appointment for his vaccinations the week before we go on holiday. He needs his own diary!
We got back and had a cuppa and Jon finished sorting the shed out and the greenhouse and then cut the grass which is looking much better now.
We had dinner and then took Totty out for a walk.
I might just make it to bed for 11.00 tonight!
WEATHER
Mostly fine over the weekend and very warm. Thunderstorm on Saturday evening. Up in the mid 20s
Friday, 11 July 2014
Friday
When the sun is not shinning in the morning it is very difficult to get up as it was this morning. I hope the sun comes back soon!
More of the same today - unpacking boxes. They really do odd things when they pack a house. I suppose they don't think about what they are packing and it all just gets wrapped and packed like a pen and a pocket packet of Kleenex - why? The coin dish with more than $20 in it. Could they not ask? Why would we need dollars in UK? Ah well they are only doing their job.
Jon spent the whole day in the garage but it is now finally done. It is still bursting at the seams but at least it is clean and tidy. I no have space to put all my electrical, kitchen appliances which has freed up some space in the cupboards.
I finally managed to get the white sticky labels off the glass cupboard doors. I Googled it and it suggested using vodka and fortunately, for me, there was some in the garage and it worked a treat, lovely sparkling windows.
We did go out for a coffee this morning and I bought some birthday cards and stamps, anything to avoid queuing in the post office! We went to a curtain shop and I found some very nice Jeff Banks curtains in a sale they had on and just the right colour. I also bought some for the bedroom and for Heather's bedroom all in the one shop.
Back home we had more unpacking and I finally started on the boxes upstairs which are mainly clothes. I found two of the clothes rails and put one up but I can't find all the screws for the other and until I do there is no point unpacking the clothes.
The lady didn't get back to me about the bed so I assume it is too big for her room so will try again on FB and if not the charity shop will benefit!!!
Heather told me some sad news this evening about the death of one of my Brownie mums who was only 51. I saw a photo of her on FB at Christmas and she looked fine. Very sad, nice lady who had a difficult life.
We watched some TV after dinner and I had a chat with Jane who had taken Riley over to see his great granddad today, she also took him into her office to see the people there so he has had a showing off today. He is doing well and has put weight on and now weighs 8lbs 8oz a total of 10 ounces in ten days.
Early night tonight and hopefully I can get up early in the morning.
WEATHER
Overcast with some showers 20 degrees
More of the same today - unpacking boxes. They really do odd things when they pack a house. I suppose they don't think about what they are packing and it all just gets wrapped and packed like a pen and a pocket packet of Kleenex - why? The coin dish with more than $20 in it. Could they not ask? Why would we need dollars in UK? Ah well they are only doing their job.
Jon spent the whole day in the garage but it is now finally done. It is still bursting at the seams but at least it is clean and tidy. I no have space to put all my electrical, kitchen appliances which has freed up some space in the cupboards.
I finally managed to get the white sticky labels off the glass cupboard doors. I Googled it and it suggested using vodka and fortunately, for me, there was some in the garage and it worked a treat, lovely sparkling windows.
We did go out for a coffee this morning and I bought some birthday cards and stamps, anything to avoid queuing in the post office! We went to a curtain shop and I found some very nice Jeff Banks curtains in a sale they had on and just the right colour. I also bought some for the bedroom and for Heather's bedroom all in the one shop.
Back home we had more unpacking and I finally started on the boxes upstairs which are mainly clothes. I found two of the clothes rails and put one up but I can't find all the screws for the other and until I do there is no point unpacking the clothes.
The lady didn't get back to me about the bed so I assume it is too big for her room so will try again on FB and if not the charity shop will benefit!!!
Heather told me some sad news this evening about the death of one of my Brownie mums who was only 51. I saw a photo of her on FB at Christmas and she looked fine. Very sad, nice lady who had a difficult life.
We watched some TV after dinner and I had a chat with Jane who had taken Riley over to see his great granddad today, she also took him into her office to see the people there so he has had a showing off today. He is doing well and has put weight on and now weighs 8lbs 8oz a total of 10 ounces in ten days.
Early night tonight and hopefully I can get up early in the morning.
WEATHER
Overcast with some showers 20 degrees
Thursday, 10 July 2014
Wednsday & Thursday
Yet another change! We now have our computer set up but Jon didn't tell me so last night when I went to do my blog the computer was turned off and I couldn't be bothered to start it up again. Tonight, yet again Jon had turned it all off! He NEVER turned the computer off in NZ and it takes ages to get it started and it is too late for doing things like that but thought I had better tonight or I will have three nights to catch up.
Yesterday was another busy day of unpacking and not knowing where to put things and getting more and more frustrated with the amount of things we have. I really should have been more ruthless before we left NZ.
By the end of the day things were not looking much better, I just had more empty boxes and a bigger pile of paper and bubble wrap!
I popped over to see Rene who appears to be more confused than ever. She asked me if I knew her sister had died. She also told me she was found on the floor but still insists it was by the front door. I told her I found her and it was at the back door and she said 'Did you'? Her sister's funeral is next week but she can't remember if it is Wednesday or Thursday. There will be no refreshments after the funeral which I find very sad and Fran would be very upset about it all as she always liked things done properly.
Thursday.
Up and at it again with the unpacking as soon as we had finished breakfast. I could cry at the state of the place.
My neighbour, Edna, called round at 9.40 to say that Rene's blinds were not open and I told her I had noticed. I told her I had ben there last evening and I didn't think she looked as well as she had in hospital. We both went across and into the house and Rene was still in bed. We called her name and she woke up and was surprised it was so late and said she had been up for a long time in the night and was tired! Every morning has the potential to be like this now.
I carried on with my unpacking and then we went out for a coffee. The traffic was bad as it was racing and Ladies Day but what a shame as it was such horrible weather.
We had a coffee and then went to Homebase where we spent an age choosing shelves to go in the garage to put everything on and tidy it all up so that I can store my small, kitchen appliances in there as there is nowhere to keep them in the kitchen and as they are not used every day it will be the best solution.
We got back and Jon started to sort out the garage and not one to do things by half everything had to be pulled out and sorted and by the evening it was half done and looking much better. Still no shelves yet for my things so the family room still looks like a packing shed!
Heather called to say she was going to Jane and Jason's for dinner and as I had a big pasta bake I decided to go and buy something for Jon and I and leave the pasta bake for tomorrow.
I went to Waitrose and was surprised how busy it was for 6.30 in the evening and the traffic leaving the races was very heavy, too. I bought a few things that were reduced so that I can keep them in the freezer and then went home.
We had dinner late and then watched some TV.
It is still raining but hopefully it will be better tomorrow. I have a lady interested in the bed but nothing definite yet. I now have lots of people wanting my boxes but just waiting for the man who replied first to confirm when he can collect them. I will be glad when they are gone.
Off to bed now.
WEATHER
Pretty miserable both days with lots of rain on Thursday
Yesterday was another busy day of unpacking and not knowing where to put things and getting more and more frustrated with the amount of things we have. I really should have been more ruthless before we left NZ.
By the end of the day things were not looking much better, I just had more empty boxes and a bigger pile of paper and bubble wrap!
I popped over to see Rene who appears to be more confused than ever. She asked me if I knew her sister had died. She also told me she was found on the floor but still insists it was by the front door. I told her I found her and it was at the back door and she said 'Did you'? Her sister's funeral is next week but she can't remember if it is Wednesday or Thursday. There will be no refreshments after the funeral which I find very sad and Fran would be very upset about it all as she always liked things done properly.
Thursday.
Up and at it again with the unpacking as soon as we had finished breakfast. I could cry at the state of the place.
My neighbour, Edna, called round at 9.40 to say that Rene's blinds were not open and I told her I had noticed. I told her I had ben there last evening and I didn't think she looked as well as she had in hospital. We both went across and into the house and Rene was still in bed. We called her name and she woke up and was surprised it was so late and said she had been up for a long time in the night and was tired! Every morning has the potential to be like this now.
I carried on with my unpacking and then we went out for a coffee. The traffic was bad as it was racing and Ladies Day but what a shame as it was such horrible weather.
We had a coffee and then went to Homebase where we spent an age choosing shelves to go in the garage to put everything on and tidy it all up so that I can store my small, kitchen appliances in there as there is nowhere to keep them in the kitchen and as they are not used every day it will be the best solution.
We got back and Jon started to sort out the garage and not one to do things by half everything had to be pulled out and sorted and by the evening it was half done and looking much better. Still no shelves yet for my things so the family room still looks like a packing shed!
Heather called to say she was going to Jane and Jason's for dinner and as I had a big pasta bake I decided to go and buy something for Jon and I and leave the pasta bake for tomorrow.
I went to Waitrose and was surprised how busy it was for 6.30 in the evening and the traffic leaving the races was very heavy, too. I bought a few things that were reduced so that I can keep them in the freezer and then went home.
We had dinner late and then watched some TV.
It is still raining but hopefully it will be better tomorrow. I have a lady interested in the bed but nothing definite yet. I now have lots of people wanting my boxes but just waiting for the man who replied first to confirm when he can collect them. I will be glad when they are gone.
Off to bed now.
WEATHER
Pretty miserable both days with lots of rain on Thursday
Tuesday, 8 July 2014
Monday & Tuesday
Monday
Early start this morning to be ready for the removal people who arrived at 9.00. Jon and I had moved the old sofa into the garage and the coffee table so the living room was clear. I put my car into the street so that I could get out if I needed to go anywhere.
The driver did an extremely good job reversing his lorry into the drive as there is not a lot of room between the gate posts for a huge truck.
They started to unload and it soon became clear that I was not going to get any unpacking done while they were here as they needed to know where to put boxes. It would have been useful to unpack as they could take the boxes and paper away with them.
I left to take Heather to the station as she, along with many other people in Cambridge, had been given the day off as many of the streets were closed for the leg of the Tour de France. Heather got the train in to see it. She caught a train to Ely later and met up with the girls and James and Jason and they had a picnic lunch by the river before coming back here.
The removal men did a quick job unloading everything but it is frightening to see how much we have. I hadn't realised just how big the house in NZ was. Our furniture looks very big here whereas it looked quite lost in Hairini. Not a lot we can do about it.
A friend came round to bring us some new grandparents cards which was nice.
I made lunch and then we started the job of unpacking. Jon was delighted with his bbq arriving all in one piece and no scratches.
Jane and Jason arrived with Riley and Jason went to help Jon in the garden and I unpacked while Jane fed Riley who is now doing really well and feeding much better. He is looking pink now instead of yellow.
I can't say I got to far with unpacking as I find I have nowhere to put things. We need to think of a solution. I have lots of boxes, bubble wrap and white packing paper, they used so much of it. I will have to try and advertise and see if I can get someone who needs them to take them or we will have to pay someone.
Jon went off to get the parts he needed to adapt the gas fitting on the bbq and to buy gas. Heather and I went to buy bbq food.
Kirsty was there when we got home and James arrived shortly after. The kitchen looked like a bomb had gone off with the benches all full of kitchen stuff without a home!
Unfortunately, it started to rain so Jon quickly assembled the umbrella and James and him cooked the food outside and he was very happy.
We had a lovely meal and Riley behaved very well and Jane was able to enjoy her dinner with us and not have to get up and feed him.
They all left and I was left with a very untidy kitchen to sort out!
WEATHER
Sunny and warm 23 degrees
Tuesday
I had a little lie in this morning as no early deliveries or builders!
After breakfast I got stuck into unpacking boxes and trying to find space for things which is proving very difficult.
The guys from the charity shop came at 11.00 to pick up the sofas and chairs. They managed to fit in a few other things, too. We now have some space in the garage. We have three boxes of household things which Jon and I will take down to the shop. I wish I had been more ruthless in NZ!
And that was it for the rest of the day - unpacking. We have decided to sell the king size bed we brought back as the base won't fit up the stairs. We will buy just a double as it is only the spare room and will fit better. I
I did manage to empty a lot of the boxes and it was nice seeing all my things again but I have no idea where we are going to hang all the pictures or put all the photos. Only when you see them all together do you realise how many you have. We will need to buy shelves for the garage and store the big things like my food processor and halogen oven and food mixer. In fact I think the garage will become part of the house as a storage space and my car won't be in it this winter.
I have had two enquiries about the boxes and just waiting for someone to get back to me. I had to flatten them all as I just don't have the space to put them.
Jon spent all day working in the office writing a report so I was left to it. So much to do and I haven't started upstairs yet. They packed a box of linen with the dogs beds and toys so it was a bit smelly and I have had to wash it all.
We had dinner and I unpacked more boxes until the football started and then watched the match.
Jon had a call from NZ just as it started and by the time he had finished Germany had scored five goals and he thought I was joking! It was a good game, I like lots of goals, but I did feel for Brazil. Never mind it's only a game.
Off to Ely to see if we can get Jon's hearing aids sorted tomorrow and then pop in to see Jane on the way back.
I so look forward to being able to sit down and read a book, watch TV or do my knitting but I can't see it happening for a long time yet!
WEATHER
Overcast with some sunny spells and showers in the afternoon. 19 degrees
Early start this morning to be ready for the removal people who arrived at 9.00. Jon and I had moved the old sofa into the garage and the coffee table so the living room was clear. I put my car into the street so that I could get out if I needed to go anywhere.
The driver did an extremely good job reversing his lorry into the drive as there is not a lot of room between the gate posts for a huge truck.
They started to unload and it soon became clear that I was not going to get any unpacking done while they were here as they needed to know where to put boxes. It would have been useful to unpack as they could take the boxes and paper away with them.
I left to take Heather to the station as she, along with many other people in Cambridge, had been given the day off as many of the streets were closed for the leg of the Tour de France. Heather got the train in to see it. She caught a train to Ely later and met up with the girls and James and Jason and they had a picnic lunch by the river before coming back here.
The removal men did a quick job unloading everything but it is frightening to see how much we have. I hadn't realised just how big the house in NZ was. Our furniture looks very big here whereas it looked quite lost in Hairini. Not a lot we can do about it.
A friend came round to bring us some new grandparents cards which was nice.
I made lunch and then we started the job of unpacking. Jon was delighted with his bbq arriving all in one piece and no scratches.
Jane and Jason arrived with Riley and Jason went to help Jon in the garden and I unpacked while Jane fed Riley who is now doing really well and feeding much better. He is looking pink now instead of yellow.
I can't say I got to far with unpacking as I find I have nowhere to put things. We need to think of a solution. I have lots of boxes, bubble wrap and white packing paper, they used so much of it. I will have to try and advertise and see if I can get someone who needs them to take them or we will have to pay someone.
Jon went off to get the parts he needed to adapt the gas fitting on the bbq and to buy gas. Heather and I went to buy bbq food.
Kirsty was there when we got home and James arrived shortly after. The kitchen looked like a bomb had gone off with the benches all full of kitchen stuff without a home!
Unfortunately, it started to rain so Jon quickly assembled the umbrella and James and him cooked the food outside and he was very happy.
We had a lovely meal and Riley behaved very well and Jane was able to enjoy her dinner with us and not have to get up and feed him.
They all left and I was left with a very untidy kitchen to sort out!
WEATHER
Sunny and warm 23 degrees
Tuesday
I had a little lie in this morning as no early deliveries or builders!
After breakfast I got stuck into unpacking boxes and trying to find space for things which is proving very difficult.
The guys from the charity shop came at 11.00 to pick up the sofas and chairs. They managed to fit in a few other things, too. We now have some space in the garage. We have three boxes of household things which Jon and I will take down to the shop. I wish I had been more ruthless in NZ!
And that was it for the rest of the day - unpacking. We have decided to sell the king size bed we brought back as the base won't fit up the stairs. We will buy just a double as it is only the spare room and will fit better. I
I did manage to empty a lot of the boxes and it was nice seeing all my things again but I have no idea where we are going to hang all the pictures or put all the photos. Only when you see them all together do you realise how many you have. We will need to buy shelves for the garage and store the big things like my food processor and halogen oven and food mixer. In fact I think the garage will become part of the house as a storage space and my car won't be in it this winter.
I have had two enquiries about the boxes and just waiting for someone to get back to me. I had to flatten them all as I just don't have the space to put them.
Jon spent all day working in the office writing a report so I was left to it. So much to do and I haven't started upstairs yet. They packed a box of linen with the dogs beds and toys so it was a bit smelly and I have had to wash it all.
We had dinner and I unpacked more boxes until the football started and then watched the match.
Jon had a call from NZ just as it started and by the time he had finished Germany had scored five goals and he thought I was joking! It was a good game, I like lots of goals, but I did feel for Brazil. Never mind it's only a game.
Off to Ely to see if we can get Jon's hearing aids sorted tomorrow and then pop in to see Jane on the way back.
I so look forward to being able to sit down and read a book, watch TV or do my knitting but I can't see it happening for a long time yet!
WEATHER
Overcast with some sunny spells and showers in the afternoon. 19 degrees
Sunday, 6 July 2014
Saturday and Sunday
Saturday
It was not a very pleasant start to the day as it was overcast and wet.
Jon and I had quite a few errands to do in Newmarket so went into town and made our way through the list. I just managed to make the post office before it closed to send the contract back to the owners in France who we are renting from. Jon picked up my parcel which was the part for the Dyson.
We then went to the EE shop and bought a new phone for me. I had a Samsung which worked perfectly well in NZ but since coming back it has been useless. I now have a Sony Experia which seems very nice and easy to use. The kind man in the shop transferred all my contact details over and I will get the girls to help me transfer all my photos tomorrow.
I had a look around for a top for Jane as she is short of clothes for breastfeeding. We found a top but not sure if she will like it.
We went into a charity shop and asked them if they would like some furniture and they said they would so he is arranging for a van to come and collect what we don't want on Tuesday. I got fed up advertising it on Facebook and people messing me around as to when they will come and collect it.
We got home and had lunch and then I started to clear out the bedroom ready for the furniture on Monday. All that is left are boxes of books belonging to Heather but I don't seem to be able to pin her down to sort them. I can see me having to put them in the loft with the rest of the things and then she will be cross. One day I think the whole loft will fall down. It is most definitely a winter sorting job, far too much junk up there still.
Jon put the new hose on the Dyson but it would not work, no suction. I had the whole thing in pieces and unblocked all the fluff that it had picked up from the new carpet. Put it all together and it still will not suck up the tube! I really hate this Dyson it is the worst cleaner I have ever had. I will need to take it to the shop on Monday and see if they can sort it but it is still under Guarantee but not sure where the receipt will be.
It put me in a very bad mood as it took up most of the afternoon.
I cooked some garlic chicken for dinner and we had potatoes and vegetables with it. Heather went over to cook dinner for Jane and Jason.
WEATHER
Heavy showers but bright later 20 degrees
Sunday
I got up and had my shower and washed my hair and did a few jobs around the house.
Jon drove Heather over to Cambridge for her office summer party and we will collect her later.
We then went out for a coffee and did some shopping for Kirsty before heading over to Mildenhall. James had set up a big screen in the garden to watch the Grand Prix. His parents were there and his nana and we had a really lovely afternoon.
James cooked a bbq after the racing and we continued to watch the men's final on the big screen which was very good. Jane and Jason arrived with Riley and we all had a lovely bbq. I had a lovely cuddle with Riley who is not looking so yellow and Jane is doing so well feeding him, she is a natural.
Unfortunately, Heather called to say she was ready to come home so Jon and I had to leave and listen to the final set on the radio.
The house where the party was held is a beautiful old house outside of Shelford and it is in beautiful grounds and very big.
We got home and Jon and I moved some of the furniture out of the living room and the rest we will have to put in the garage ready for the charity shop to come and collect it on Tuesday. I will be so glad when it is all done. I did have another two enquiries for it today but I said it had gone.
Off to bed now ready for a busy day tomorrow.
WEATHER
Cloudy and wet start then sunny, warm afternoon 22 degrees
It was not a very pleasant start to the day as it was overcast and wet.
Jon and I had quite a few errands to do in Newmarket so went into town and made our way through the list. I just managed to make the post office before it closed to send the contract back to the owners in France who we are renting from. Jon picked up my parcel which was the part for the Dyson.
We then went to the EE shop and bought a new phone for me. I had a Samsung which worked perfectly well in NZ but since coming back it has been useless. I now have a Sony Experia which seems very nice and easy to use. The kind man in the shop transferred all my contact details over and I will get the girls to help me transfer all my photos tomorrow.
I had a look around for a top for Jane as she is short of clothes for breastfeeding. We found a top but not sure if she will like it.
We went into a charity shop and asked them if they would like some furniture and they said they would so he is arranging for a van to come and collect what we don't want on Tuesday. I got fed up advertising it on Facebook and people messing me around as to when they will come and collect it.
We got home and had lunch and then I started to clear out the bedroom ready for the furniture on Monday. All that is left are boxes of books belonging to Heather but I don't seem to be able to pin her down to sort them. I can see me having to put them in the loft with the rest of the things and then she will be cross. One day I think the whole loft will fall down. It is most definitely a winter sorting job, far too much junk up there still.
Jon put the new hose on the Dyson but it would not work, no suction. I had the whole thing in pieces and unblocked all the fluff that it had picked up from the new carpet. Put it all together and it still will not suck up the tube! I really hate this Dyson it is the worst cleaner I have ever had. I will need to take it to the shop on Monday and see if they can sort it but it is still under Guarantee but not sure where the receipt will be.
It put me in a very bad mood as it took up most of the afternoon.
I cooked some garlic chicken for dinner and we had potatoes and vegetables with it. Heather went over to cook dinner for Jane and Jason.
WEATHER
Heavy showers but bright later 20 degrees
Sunday
I got up and had my shower and washed my hair and did a few jobs around the house.
Jon drove Heather over to Cambridge for her office summer party and we will collect her later.
We then went out for a coffee and did some shopping for Kirsty before heading over to Mildenhall. James had set up a big screen in the garden to watch the Grand Prix. His parents were there and his nana and we had a really lovely afternoon.
James cooked a bbq after the racing and we continued to watch the men's final on the big screen which was very good. Jane and Jason arrived with Riley and we all had a lovely bbq. I had a lovely cuddle with Riley who is not looking so yellow and Jane is doing so well feeding him, she is a natural.
Unfortunately, Heather called to say she was ready to come home so Jon and I had to leave and listen to the final set on the radio.
The house where the party was held is a beautiful old house outside of Shelford and it is in beautiful grounds and very big.
We got home and Jon and I moved some of the furniture out of the living room and the rest we will have to put in the garage ready for the charity shop to come and collect it on Tuesday. I will be so glad when it is all done. I did have another two enquiries for it today but I said it had gone.
Off to bed now ready for a busy day tomorrow.
WEATHER
Cloudy and wet start then sunny, warm afternoon 22 degrees
Friday, 4 July 2014
Friday
I was woken by the phone this morning and although it is on Jon's side he appears not to hear it so I had to jump out of bed to answer it. A call for him from Australia. I had to tell a little white lie and say he was in the shower as he was not in a state to talk. They said they would call back in ten minutes lol!
We had a few calls to the people who have our furniture this morning as the invoice does not seem to add up to the amount quoted. We had to pay it or we would not get our things on Monday and we will have to sort it out later. I am going to have a busy weekend getting the house ready to take all our stuff. I have put some furniture on a selling page on Facebook just to get rid of it but no joy so far. I will have to call one of the charity shops to see if they want it.
We did intend to go to Cambridge as we needed to get cash from the bank to pay for some work we have had done. Unfortunately, our bank is in Guildford and our nearest branch is Cambridge. Jon wasn't in the mood to drive so far so we will just carry on getting two hundred pounds a day from the cash machine!!
We went to Costa for a coffee and rang Jane to see what time she wanted us to go over and she told us when we were ready. We bought a few things for lunch and then back home to hang out the washing before heading over to Soham.
Riley had wanted a feed every two hours through the night so they had had a broken night but they all looked well but Riley is still quite yellow. They are concerned they don't make him too hot but he would not settle so I put a little blanket on him and he did calm down. It is very difficult when it is so hot for us to know how hot to keep a baby.
We had some lunch but then Riley woke again and so Jane went to feed him, she is doing really well with feeding considering she didn't want to.
The midwife came and checked him over and tested him on a scale for jaundice and she said he was just about on the line so to be on the safe side she rang the hospital and they said to bring him in to put him in one of the light cots. She also thought he might be tongue tied so Jane needs to keep an eye on him for that.
Riley settled very well after his feed and Jon was happy to hold him which he did for quite some time while they got themselves organised for an overnight stay at the hospital. I took him up to get changed for the third time today and after protesting quite a lot he was ready. There is certainly nothing wrong with his lungs!
The next step was getting him into the car seat. Poor little things they really don't look comfortable in them. They left for the hospital and we went home but got caught up in the race traffic.
We had a cup of tea and then I brought all my washing in before going over to borrow a vacuum cleaner from Mary. The tube on mine has a hole in and the replacement from Dyson has not arrived yet although there is a parcel waiting to be collected at the post office.
I cooked dinner for Jon and I, Heather is staying with her friend in Cambridge tonight.
I was very worried about Riley and how he was getting on and sent a text to Jane. She called me a few minutes later to say they were being allowed home. After blood tests it was decided he was OK. She will have a visit from someone tomorrow to check on him and has to feed him more often. He needs to wake up and take his feeds and not be a lazy boy! So relieved he is OK and they are going home. Jane was not looking forward to a hospital bed again.
We took the dog for a walk after dinner and then watched the football.
WEATHER
Sunny and very warm, car said 27 degrees!
We had a few calls to the people who have our furniture this morning as the invoice does not seem to add up to the amount quoted. We had to pay it or we would not get our things on Monday and we will have to sort it out later. I am going to have a busy weekend getting the house ready to take all our stuff. I have put some furniture on a selling page on Facebook just to get rid of it but no joy so far. I will have to call one of the charity shops to see if they want it.
We did intend to go to Cambridge as we needed to get cash from the bank to pay for some work we have had done. Unfortunately, our bank is in Guildford and our nearest branch is Cambridge. Jon wasn't in the mood to drive so far so we will just carry on getting two hundred pounds a day from the cash machine!!
We went to Costa for a coffee and rang Jane to see what time she wanted us to go over and she told us when we were ready. We bought a few things for lunch and then back home to hang out the washing before heading over to Soham.
Riley had wanted a feed every two hours through the night so they had had a broken night but they all looked well but Riley is still quite yellow. They are concerned they don't make him too hot but he would not settle so I put a little blanket on him and he did calm down. It is very difficult when it is so hot for us to know how hot to keep a baby.
We had some lunch but then Riley woke again and so Jane went to feed him, she is doing really well with feeding considering she didn't want to.
The midwife came and checked him over and tested him on a scale for jaundice and she said he was just about on the line so to be on the safe side she rang the hospital and they said to bring him in to put him in one of the light cots. She also thought he might be tongue tied so Jane needs to keep an eye on him for that.
Riley settled very well after his feed and Jon was happy to hold him which he did for quite some time while they got themselves organised for an overnight stay at the hospital. I took him up to get changed for the third time today and after protesting quite a lot he was ready. There is certainly nothing wrong with his lungs!
The next step was getting him into the car seat. Poor little things they really don't look comfortable in them. They left for the hospital and we went home but got caught up in the race traffic.
We had a cup of tea and then I brought all my washing in before going over to borrow a vacuum cleaner from Mary. The tube on mine has a hole in and the replacement from Dyson has not arrived yet although there is a parcel waiting to be collected at the post office.
I cooked dinner for Jon and I, Heather is staying with her friend in Cambridge tonight.
I was very worried about Riley and how he was getting on and sent a text to Jane. She called me a few minutes later to say they were being allowed home. After blood tests it was decided he was OK. She will have a visit from someone tomorrow to check on him and has to feed him more often. He needs to wake up and take his feeds and not be a lazy boy! So relieved he is OK and they are going home. Jane was not looking forward to a hospital bed again.
We took the dog for a walk after dinner and then watched the football.
WEATHER
Sunny and very warm, car said 27 degrees!
Thursday, 3 July 2014
Thursday
Another beautiful morning sunny and clear.
The first thing I had to do this morning was call the storage people and arrange delivery of our furniture for Monday which I did and it is all sorted to be delivered about 9.00. A busy day ahead.
Jane had called to ask me to pick up some things for her on my way over so I went to M&S to get what she wanted and then went over to Soham.
They were all very relaxed and just bringing baby down. Riley, as I can now call him as she has told all the family, was awake but sucking his dummy and quite happy.
Jane has not been able to get him to feed from the left side and he gets very distressed but is happy for the right side. The hospital suggested that she express milk to get things moving and to stop her getting sore so Jason had to go into Ely to buy a breast pump.
Jason is being a model daddy and has changed more nappies than Jane! He also had a load of washing out on the line at 8.00 which had dried and he brought in, folded and put another two loads out!
Jane and I sat chatting and she told me Riley slept from 1.30 - 6.00 when she changed his nappy but then he slept again till 8.00 when she fed him. He is very yellow with jaundice now and I suggested to her that she may need to wake him to feed as that was too long for him. On the other hand, I am not sure I know what I am talking about these days as everything is so different!
He fed again and I could see he was distressed at the left side but happy to go to the right and fed well.
Jason came back and brought some nice food for lunch and then I had to leave to get back for the carpet fitter. Jane looks so well and seems to be very relaxed and taking things in her stride.
I got back home and the carpet fitter was waiting but had only just arrived. He got on with the carpet and it only took him about an hour and it looks very nice.
I hadn't heard a thing from Jon since Tuesday so had no idea what time he would be home. I tried to call his mobile but there was no signal.
Abi, the beautician, arrived to do my toes. Abi went to school with Heather so I know her well and she did Jane's makeup for the wedding. First of all she did a quick tidy of my nails but no polish as I am doing too much DIY. She then did my toes with gel polish. Heather had finished work early and arrived home to have her nails done, too.
We finally got through to Jon and he had just got off the shuttle. He wanted to know what the hold up on the M11 was so I found out and told him it was an overturned lorry which had spilt a load of glue on both sides of the motorway and it was closed. I suggested the A12, long way round but better than sitting still. He said he would wait and see.
I went off to Tesco to get some bread and milk and saw some friends who have been babysitting a plant of ours for the last five years. They say I can have him - Dave - back now but he is not looking in the best of health lol!
The next time I spoke to him he was on the joining slip road to the M11 and not moving. Hmm, should have listened to the wife!! He was there for the next few hours.
The next call I had was at 8.45 and he said he didn't know where he was but would be home by 9.30. I asked him if he didn't know where he was how did he know he would be home by 9.30. He told me he was following the sat nav instructions. He walked through the door at 9.30!
We had dinner but it was too late to go and see Jane. After dinner we had a quick catch up and he went to bed as he has had very early starts down at the port in Le Harve so is tired.
WEATHER
Warm and sunny 26 degrees
The first thing I had to do this morning was call the storage people and arrange delivery of our furniture for Monday which I did and it is all sorted to be delivered about 9.00. A busy day ahead.
Jane had called to ask me to pick up some things for her on my way over so I went to M&S to get what she wanted and then went over to Soham.
They were all very relaxed and just bringing baby down. Riley, as I can now call him as she has told all the family, was awake but sucking his dummy and quite happy.
Jane has not been able to get him to feed from the left side and he gets very distressed but is happy for the right side. The hospital suggested that she express milk to get things moving and to stop her getting sore so Jason had to go into Ely to buy a breast pump.
Jason is being a model daddy and has changed more nappies than Jane! He also had a load of washing out on the line at 8.00 which had dried and he brought in, folded and put another two loads out!
Jane and I sat chatting and she told me Riley slept from 1.30 - 6.00 when she changed his nappy but then he slept again till 8.00 when she fed him. He is very yellow with jaundice now and I suggested to her that she may need to wake him to feed as that was too long for him. On the other hand, I am not sure I know what I am talking about these days as everything is so different!
He fed again and I could see he was distressed at the left side but happy to go to the right and fed well.
Jason came back and brought some nice food for lunch and then I had to leave to get back for the carpet fitter. Jane looks so well and seems to be very relaxed and taking things in her stride.
I got back home and the carpet fitter was waiting but had only just arrived. He got on with the carpet and it only took him about an hour and it looks very nice.
I hadn't heard a thing from Jon since Tuesday so had no idea what time he would be home. I tried to call his mobile but there was no signal.
Abi, the beautician, arrived to do my toes. Abi went to school with Heather so I know her well and she did Jane's makeup for the wedding. First of all she did a quick tidy of my nails but no polish as I am doing too much DIY. She then did my toes with gel polish. Heather had finished work early and arrived home to have her nails done, too.
We finally got through to Jon and he had just got off the shuttle. He wanted to know what the hold up on the M11 was so I found out and told him it was an overturned lorry which had spilt a load of glue on both sides of the motorway and it was closed. I suggested the A12, long way round but better than sitting still. He said he would wait and see.
I went off to Tesco to get some bread and milk and saw some friends who have been babysitting a plant of ours for the last five years. They say I can have him - Dave - back now but he is not looking in the best of health lol!
The next time I spoke to him he was on the joining slip road to the M11 and not moving. Hmm, should have listened to the wife!! He was there for the next few hours.
The next call I had was at 8.45 and he said he didn't know where he was but would be home by 9.30. I asked him if he didn't know where he was how did he know he would be home by 9.30. He told me he was following the sat nav instructions. He walked through the door at 9.30!
We had dinner but it was too late to go and see Jane. After dinner we had a quick catch up and he went to bed as he has had very early starts down at the port in Le Harve so is tired.
WEATHER
Warm and sunny 26 degrees
Wednesday, 2 July 2014
Another busy day
I had a good night's sleep last night now that the worry of labour is over!
I went into the shower and there was no hot water. I asked Heather if she had a hot shower and she said it had run out. Hmm what do I do? I went downstairs and checked that the water was on then looked at the pump switch which was turned off. I have no idea who did it or why. I then checked the back boiler and saw that the pilot light was flashing. I can't remember the last time I had to light the pilot night but managed to dig up the correct combination from the depths of my mind and it worked.
I had to wait for the water to heat so did a few jobs around the house and then had a chat to my friend Mary about Jane and the baby.
Finally had my shower and then started the preparation for painting the skirting in the spare room. I had also posted a carpet cleaner on FB and a lady liked it and said she would come round at 12 and she did and bought it. Something else gone from the garage.
The carpet fitter arrived at the same time and measured the bedroom and I chose a carpet and he will come to fit it tomorrow afternoon!
I thought I had better go and see Rene as I haven't had time since she came home. I went in her back door and she was just sitting in the chair. The first things she said was 'Do you know Fran died' Bless her all the visits I made to the hospital and she doesn't remember and is so confused with time. She told me the funeral will not be for at least another two weeks, how awful.
I sat chatting to her and showed her a photo of the baby. Jane wants to put the first one on so I can't put any on yet. I am not sure how she is going to manage but we shall just have to wait and see.
I got back and had a quick bite to eat and then started painting. I had a few texts from Jane saying they could not come home yet and then she called me and told me that he has a tiny hole in his heart and they had done an echo and said they think it will close on its own but they want to see him feeding better before she can go. She was not happy about that but the baby is the priority. She is feeling very sore and only got two hours sleep last night. There is a lady on the ward who delivered a few days ago at 26 weeks and her baby is very tiny and in special care. Jane said every time a baby cried she said shut up but then said she was talking in her sleep. Not very nice of her but then again it is not nice to be with all the babies and not have her own. She is from Basildon and does not drive so can't some and go every day.
I carried on painting and managed to get all the gloss done so hopefully it will be dry for tomorrow.
I kept sending texts to Jane as I did not know if I should go in and visit as she said she might be able to leave. Eventually, I had a text to say they had to wait a little longer so I got ready and went in. Heather went in straight from work as she is not far. Kirsty was going to go in but as we didn't know if she was coming home did not want to hang around so went home and will see her tomorrow.
When I arrived it was lovely to see him dressed in normal clothes and Heather was holding him and he looked so relaxed. He was like that for most of the visit. I had lovely cuddles with him and although he is a bit battered and bruised he looks fine. Jane had to try and feed him again at 7.00 and if he fed they could come home.
He eventually woke up and had filled his nappy so Jason changed him, that is the third nappy today he has changed and he is doing really well with him especially as they are the really messy nappies now.
Jane tried to feed him and he was sucking but not well and then getting a little frustrated. A nurse came in and suggested she lie on her side to try and that worked and he fed really well for a good twenty minutes. Gone are the days of two minutes each side! How silly was that when I think about it!
Jason asked me if I was worried yesterday when they said they would take Jane to theatre and I said no as I felt they were all doing really well and had everything under control. He told me he could not look at me as if he had seen I was worried he would have lost it. Bless him I had not realised. He said he was so relieved when he heard him cry.
The bell rang and we had to leave and hopefully that will be our last visit there.
Heather and I stopped off at Tesco to buy some dinner and then went home to eat.
Another tiring day. We had a text to say Jane could come home at 10.00!!! Who would have thought they would discharge a mother and baby at 10.00 at night???
Hopefully, she can get some proper sleep tonight and feel better tomorrow. A name has been chosen but she will need to tell Kirsty and Jason's family before she tells anyone else.
Jon will be home tomorrow and be able to meet the little man.
WEATHER
Warm and sunny 21 degrees
I went into the shower and there was no hot water. I asked Heather if she had a hot shower and she said it had run out. Hmm what do I do? I went downstairs and checked that the water was on then looked at the pump switch which was turned off. I have no idea who did it or why. I then checked the back boiler and saw that the pilot light was flashing. I can't remember the last time I had to light the pilot night but managed to dig up the correct combination from the depths of my mind and it worked.
I had to wait for the water to heat so did a few jobs around the house and then had a chat to my friend Mary about Jane and the baby.
Finally had my shower and then started the preparation for painting the skirting in the spare room. I had also posted a carpet cleaner on FB and a lady liked it and said she would come round at 12 and she did and bought it. Something else gone from the garage.
The carpet fitter arrived at the same time and measured the bedroom and I chose a carpet and he will come to fit it tomorrow afternoon!
I thought I had better go and see Rene as I haven't had time since she came home. I went in her back door and she was just sitting in the chair. The first things she said was 'Do you know Fran died' Bless her all the visits I made to the hospital and she doesn't remember and is so confused with time. She told me the funeral will not be for at least another two weeks, how awful.
I sat chatting to her and showed her a photo of the baby. Jane wants to put the first one on so I can't put any on yet. I am not sure how she is going to manage but we shall just have to wait and see.
I got back and had a quick bite to eat and then started painting. I had a few texts from Jane saying they could not come home yet and then she called me and told me that he has a tiny hole in his heart and they had done an echo and said they think it will close on its own but they want to see him feeding better before she can go. She was not happy about that but the baby is the priority. She is feeling very sore and only got two hours sleep last night. There is a lady on the ward who delivered a few days ago at 26 weeks and her baby is very tiny and in special care. Jane said every time a baby cried she said shut up but then said she was talking in her sleep. Not very nice of her but then again it is not nice to be with all the babies and not have her own. She is from Basildon and does not drive so can't some and go every day.
I carried on painting and managed to get all the gloss done so hopefully it will be dry for tomorrow.
I kept sending texts to Jane as I did not know if I should go in and visit as she said she might be able to leave. Eventually, I had a text to say they had to wait a little longer so I got ready and went in. Heather went in straight from work as she is not far. Kirsty was going to go in but as we didn't know if she was coming home did not want to hang around so went home and will see her tomorrow.
When I arrived it was lovely to see him dressed in normal clothes and Heather was holding him and he looked so relaxed. He was like that for most of the visit. I had lovely cuddles with him and although he is a bit battered and bruised he looks fine. Jane had to try and feed him again at 7.00 and if he fed they could come home.
He eventually woke up and had filled his nappy so Jason changed him, that is the third nappy today he has changed and he is doing really well with him especially as they are the really messy nappies now.
Jane tried to feed him and he was sucking but not well and then getting a little frustrated. A nurse came in and suggested she lie on her side to try and that worked and he fed really well for a good twenty minutes. Gone are the days of two minutes each side! How silly was that when I think about it!
Jason asked me if I was worried yesterday when they said they would take Jane to theatre and I said no as I felt they were all doing really well and had everything under control. He told me he could not look at me as if he had seen I was worried he would have lost it. Bless him I had not realised. He said he was so relieved when he heard him cry.
The bell rang and we had to leave and hopefully that will be our last visit there.
Heather and I stopped off at Tesco to buy some dinner and then went home to eat.
Another tiring day. We had a text to say Jane could come home at 10.00!!! Who would have thought they would discharge a mother and baby at 10.00 at night???
Hopefully, she can get some proper sleep tonight and feel better tomorrow. A name has been chosen but she will need to tell Kirsty and Jason's family before she tells anyone else.
Jon will be home tomorrow and be able to meet the little man.
WEATHER
Warm and sunny 21 degrees
Tuesday, 1 July 2014
A new grandson!
What a day we had yesterday! So catch up blog today.
We had no news overnight about Jane so Heather sent them a text to say I would go and see them.
I waited to let the builder in and asked him to make sure Totty didn't get out and then I left to drive to Cambridge and arrived at the hospital at 9.00.
Jane was in the very nice new Rosie Birthing Suite which is very plush and like a five star hotel. She was having contractions but they had slowed right down and she was not progressing but she was managing the pain well. However, it is very distressing seeing your daughter in pain and feeling helpless.
She had two midwives, Jasmine, who was training and on her 38th delivery and Rachel, who had lost count! Two really lovely girls who were very chatty but gave us lots of confidence.
The midwives discussed the options with Jane and it was decided to move her up to the delivery suite and give her an epidural. Bags were packed and Jane put in a chair and off we went to another room though unfortunately, not so sound proof.
There was a woman next-door screaming and yelling and calling someone a B*****d! She was very vocal, I have never heard anything like it and the midwife said we could close the windows and put some music on. It did go quiet for a time and I said she mush have her baby and then it started again. A little later Rachel came in and said she had heard baby crying so she had delivered!
The anaesthetist came in a very nice young man and prepared Jane for the epidural. I was sitting in the chair in full view of her back and he asked me if I was OK with needles and I told him I was fine. It was quite fascinating watching him do it.
The change in Jane was almost instant as she relaxed and was smiling again. Why did I never have an epidural!!!
Nothing much happened after that and her progress was still slow so they put her on a hormone drip and as it was going to be at least another four hours I went home at about 12.00 to check on the builder, dog and get my phone charger as I had been texting Jon, Heather, Kirsty and my friend Mary all morning and the battery was running down.
I went back to the hospital about 3.00 and they examined Jane about 3.30 and she was fully dilated but they wanted her to have an hours rest before pushing began so she tried to sleep a little but it was all very calm. Poor Jason was so tired but he was coping really well with it all. Such an eye opener for men seeing a woman in labour I think.
Well, pushing began but it was slow and hard work and Baby Meddows was not helping by getting into the wrong position and falling asleep all the time. After an hour the senior midwife came in and said they would get the doctor to have a look as both Jane and baby were getting tired.
Doctor came in and looked so like Miranda and even the way she spoke, very funny! She told Jane she was doing well and stayed for a little while and then said they would get her ready for theatre but for her to keep trying. At that point we were all giving her all the encouragement we could, Jason, me, the midwives the doctor and the anaesthetist, bit like cheering your favourite team on!
I was impressed at the speed they got things moving and before I knew it she was being whisked away down the corridor with a posse of people around the bed.
I went to wait out in reception and Heather arrived. We waited for 45 minutes and then Kirsty and James arrived. I finally caught a midwife and asked how things were going and she said Jane was in recovery. We went round and she was sitting in bed with the biggest smile on her face and feeding the baby who is so sweet (I know, all new grandparents say that). He was born at 6.26 making it a whopping 39.5 hours labour phew! He was a good weight at 7lbs 14oz. So proud of her and the way she coped with it.
We were all very fortunate to be able to see her together as it is only two visitors but we didn't get long. Jason's mum and dad arrived and then the nurse said we were too many which is fair enough so we all left. We met Jason's sister and partner on their way in.
Jane would be moved to one of the wards later and hopefully be discharged on Wednesday.
W all went home and Heather bought some food on the way and I had a snack when I got home and a cold beer.
Such a wonderful day and now life will never be the same with a new little boy in the family. So much to look forward to.
WEATHER
Warm and sunny 21 degrees
We had no news overnight about Jane so Heather sent them a text to say I would go and see them.
I waited to let the builder in and asked him to make sure Totty didn't get out and then I left to drive to Cambridge and arrived at the hospital at 9.00.
Jane was in the very nice new Rosie Birthing Suite which is very plush and like a five star hotel. She was having contractions but they had slowed right down and she was not progressing but she was managing the pain well. However, it is very distressing seeing your daughter in pain and feeling helpless.
She had two midwives, Jasmine, who was training and on her 38th delivery and Rachel, who had lost count! Two really lovely girls who were very chatty but gave us lots of confidence.
The midwives discussed the options with Jane and it was decided to move her up to the delivery suite and give her an epidural. Bags were packed and Jane put in a chair and off we went to another room though unfortunately, not so sound proof.
There was a woman next-door screaming and yelling and calling someone a B*****d! She was very vocal, I have never heard anything like it and the midwife said we could close the windows and put some music on. It did go quiet for a time and I said she mush have her baby and then it started again. A little later Rachel came in and said she had heard baby crying so she had delivered!
The anaesthetist came in a very nice young man and prepared Jane for the epidural. I was sitting in the chair in full view of her back and he asked me if I was OK with needles and I told him I was fine. It was quite fascinating watching him do it.
The change in Jane was almost instant as she relaxed and was smiling again. Why did I never have an epidural!!!
Nothing much happened after that and her progress was still slow so they put her on a hormone drip and as it was going to be at least another four hours I went home at about 12.00 to check on the builder, dog and get my phone charger as I had been texting Jon, Heather, Kirsty and my friend Mary all morning and the battery was running down.
I went back to the hospital about 3.00 and they examined Jane about 3.30 and she was fully dilated but they wanted her to have an hours rest before pushing began so she tried to sleep a little but it was all very calm. Poor Jason was so tired but he was coping really well with it all. Such an eye opener for men seeing a woman in labour I think.
Well, pushing began but it was slow and hard work and Baby Meddows was not helping by getting into the wrong position and falling asleep all the time. After an hour the senior midwife came in and said they would get the doctor to have a look as both Jane and baby were getting tired.
Doctor came in and looked so like Miranda and even the way she spoke, very funny! She told Jane she was doing well and stayed for a little while and then said they would get her ready for theatre but for her to keep trying. At that point we were all giving her all the encouragement we could, Jason, me, the midwives the doctor and the anaesthetist, bit like cheering your favourite team on!
I was impressed at the speed they got things moving and before I knew it she was being whisked away down the corridor with a posse of people around the bed.
I went to wait out in reception and Heather arrived. We waited for 45 minutes and then Kirsty and James arrived. I finally caught a midwife and asked how things were going and she said Jane was in recovery. We went round and she was sitting in bed with the biggest smile on her face and feeding the baby who is so sweet (I know, all new grandparents say that). He was born at 6.26 making it a whopping 39.5 hours labour phew! He was a good weight at 7lbs 14oz. So proud of her and the way she coped with it.
We were all very fortunate to be able to see her together as it is only two visitors but we didn't get long. Jason's mum and dad arrived and then the nurse said we were too many which is fair enough so we all left. We met Jason's sister and partner on their way in.
Jane would be moved to one of the wards later and hopefully be discharged on Wednesday.
W all went home and Heather bought some food on the way and I had a snack when I got home and a cold beer.
Such a wonderful day and now life will never be the same with a new little boy in the family. So much to look forward to.
WEATHER
Warm and sunny 21 degrees
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